Uqhawulo-mtshato kumfazi otshatileyo ephupheni
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona uqhawulo-mtshato ephupheni, olu luphawu lokukwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye namaphupha akhe, okumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubele phambili ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuqhawula umtshato ephupheni lakhe, oku kubonisa izinto ezininzi ezintle kunye neenzuzo eziza kuba kuye kungekudala.
- Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo ecela umyeni wakhe ukuba aqhawule umtshato ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumvulela indlela yokuphumeza into ebeyifuna ngamandla.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lokuba umyeni wakhe aqhawule umtshato ngelixa evuya libonisa ukukhululeka kunye nenhlanhla eya kuhamba naye kubo bonke ubomi bakhe kwaye enze izinto ezininzi zibe lula kuye.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona uqhawulo-mtshato kwaye uziva ebuhlungu ephupheni, oku kubonisa iingxaki kunye nezinto ezinzima ahlangabezana nazo ezichaphazela kakubi ingqondo yakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuqhawula umtshato kumfazi otshatileyo kunye nokutshata omnye ngu-Ibn Sirin
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ephupheni ukuba uqhawula umtshato aze atshate nomntu ongenguye umyeni wakhe, kuya kwenzeka utshintsho oluninzi kwiimeko zakhe kwaye ulwalamano lwakhe nomyeni luya kuphucula.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha umyeni wakhe eqhawula umtshato aze atshate nenye indoda, loo nto ibonisa ukuba ufuna umntu ovela kwintsapho yakhe ukuze alawule iingxaki ajamelene nazo ukuze azuze kumava akhe.
- Ukuphupha umfazi otshatileyo ecela ukuqhawula umtshato nendoda yakhe aze atshate nenye indoda kubonisa ukuba uzimisele ukuguquka asondele kuThixo ukuze amxolele amxolele ngezenzo zakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ephupheni ukuba ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato ukuze atshate nenye indoda, oko kuthetha ukuba unomdla wokufunda izinto ezininzi ebomini bakhe ukuze ahlaziye iinkalo ezininzi zalo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba umyeni wakhe uqhawule umtshato kwaye utshata nenye indoda kwaye uziva evuya ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba imeko yeqabane lakhe emsebenzini iya kuphucula, okuya kubazisela imali eninzi kunye nezinto ezintle.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo liphupha licela ukuqhawula umtshato nendoda yalo ukuze litshate nenye indoda, oku kubonisa ukuba umyeni walo uya kuhambela kwelinye ilizwe kuba efumana ithuba elingcono lomsebenzi eliya kuba negalelo ekuphuculeni umgangatho wokuphila kwabo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo liphupha licela ukuqhawula umtshato nendoda yalo lize litshate nenye indoda ngoxa lona libuhlungu, loo nto ibonisa ukuba lihlala lisoyika yaye lixhalabile ngenxa yezinto atyhubela kuzo kulwalamano lwakhe neqabane lakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomzalwana oqhawula umtshato nomfazi wakhe ngenxa yendoda, ngu-Ibn Sirin
- Ukuba indoda ibona umzalwana wakhe eqhawula umtshato nomfazi wakhe kanye ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kudibana nomnye umfazi ngaphandle komfazi wakhe, kwaye uya kufumanisa ngayo, kwaye oku kuya kuphazamisa ubudlelwane babo.
- Xa indoda iphupha iqhawula umtshato nomfazi wayo ize emva koko itshintshe ingqondo, oku kubonisa ukuba iziva iphazamisekile yaye ilahlekile, nto leyo ebangela ukuba ihlehlise amanyathelo amaninzi ebomini bayo.
- Indoda ebona umfazi wakhe egula ephupheni ifanekisela ukungavumelani okuninzi phakathi kwabo okwenza ubuhlobo bubi.
- Ukuba indoda ibona umfazi wayo ekhulelwe ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakhe akuyi kuba lula kwaye uya kufuna inkxaso eninzi kunye nokunyamekela kuye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuqhawula umtshato kumntu ongatshatanga kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephupheni ukuba aqhawule umtshato nomntu ngaphandle komyeni wakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba oku kuya kwenzeka ngokwenene.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ephupheni ukuba aqhawule umtshato nomntu ngaphandle komyeni wakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uza kukhulelwa, kwaye oku kuya kuzisa uvuyo kunye nolonwabo entliziyweni yakhe.
- Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo eqhawula umtshato neqabane lakhe ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uthetha naye ngendlela embi kunye nengqongqo, emenza amthiye kwaye afune ukuzihlukanisa naye.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo malunga neqabane lakhe eliqhawula umtshato kanye libonisa ukuwohloka kobudlelwane babo ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwabanye.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona umyeni wakhe eqhawula umtshato kathathu ephupheni kubonisa izifo kunye nezifo eziya kubetha umyeni wakhe kwaye zichaphazele iimeko zabo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona iqabane lakhe liqhawula umtshato kabini ephupheni libonisa ukuwohloka kwimeko yabo yezemali ngenxa yesifo esibi esichaphazela ilungu lentsapho.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lokuqhawula umtshato enkundleni libonisa ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuzaliswa ngeenguqu ezininzi kwaye kufuneka azilungiselele.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhlukana nomyeni kumfazi otshatileyo ngu-Ibn Shaheen
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ehlukana nomyeni wakhe kwaye uyonwabile ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lovuyo kunye nolonwabo oluya kuba nalo kwixesha elizayo, eliya kuphakamisa ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ephupha ecela umyeni wakhe ukuba aqhawule umtshato kubonisa ukuba uyamthanda kakhulu kwaye woyika ukuba uya kumshiya okanye amshiye.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ehlukana nomyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuphelisa zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki ezazimkhathaza kwixesha elidlulileyo.
