Umqamelo ephupheni ngu-Al-Osaimi
- Nabani na obona into embi emqamelweni wakhe ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lweengxabano ezininzi eziya kujongana nabasondeleyo kuye, okuya kudala i-gap enkulu phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuba umntu ubona umcamelo okhululekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ulonwabo kunye nobomi obunokuthula ahlala kunye nentsapho yakhe kunye nabo basondeleyo kuye.
- Ukuba umntu ubona umcamelo ongakhululekanga ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uziva exhalabile kwaye ediniwe ngalo lonke ixesha ngabantwana bakhe kunye nabasondeleyo kuye, kwaye oku kubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu.
- Xa umntu ebona umcamelo ulahlekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuhlukana kwakhe nomfazi wakhe, kwaye oku kuya kumenza buhlungu kakhulu.
- Imiqamelo ephupheni ibonisa ukuba ungumhlobo wabantu abaninzi kwaye ufumana inkxaso kunye noncedo kubo ngalo lonke ixesha.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ephupheni ukuba ulele emqamelweni owonakeleyo okanye onesiphako, oku kubonisa ukuba ujongene nobunzima ekujonganeni nabo basondeleyo kuye ngenxa yesimo sakhe sengqondo esibi, kwaye kufuneka atshintshe loo nto.
- Nabani na obona imithwalo ecocekileyo kunye nekhululekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuphuculwa kweemeko zakhe zemali kunye nokuphila, okuya kumkhulula kwiimvakalelo zoxinzelelo.
Ukutolikwa kokunika umqamelo ephupheni
- Ukubona umfazi ephupheni enikwa umcamelo kufanekisela ukuba abo bajikelezileyo banqwenela ukuma ngakuye kuwo onke amaxesha anzima.
- Nabani na obona ukuba unika omnye umntu umqamelo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukukulangazelela kwakhe ukunika uncedo nokunyamekela abanye, yaye oku kumenza azive engcono.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona enika umqamelo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ungumntu onyanisekileyo ogcina amalungelo abantu kunye nethemba.
- Xa umntu ebona ukuba unika umqamelo ephupheni, oku kuchazwa njengothwele imisebenzi emininzi eyahlukeneyo kunye noxanduva, yaye oku kumenza azuze amava amaninzi aluncedo.
- Nabani na ozibona enika umcamelo ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kutshata ngokukhawuleza kwaye ahlale kunye neqabane lakhe ekuchumeni nasekuthuthuzeleni.
- Ukuthatha umcamelo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kuthatha inyathelo elihle kubudlelwane bakhe kunye neqabane lakhe kwaye amcebise kuye.
- Ukunika umcamelo ephupheni kubonisa uvuyo kunye nolonwabo oluya kuba nalo umphuphi emva kwexesha loxinzelelo kunye nobunzima.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba unika umcamelo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umzimba wakhe ukhululekile kwizifo kunye nezifo, okumenza azive ekhululekile kwaye amncede aphile ubomi bakhe ngokuqhelekileyo, kodwa kwimeko yokuba umcamelo uhlambulukile.
- Ukunika umcamelo ogugile ephupheni kubonisa ukulandelelana kweentlungu kunye nokukhathazeka ebomini bakhe, okumenza adinwe kwaye akhungatheke.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuthenga iibhedi zokulala kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo ephupheni ethenga iibhedi ezibiza kakhulu, ufuzisela ukuba uya kulahlekelwa yinxalenye enkulu yemali yakhe, eya kwenza ubomi bube nzima kuye.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba uthenga ishidi lokulala ngexabiso elincinci ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ulula kwaye unesimo esihle, kwaye oku kumenza abambe isikhundla esiphezulu kwiintliziyo zabo bajikelezile.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ukuba uthengela ibhedi etshisiweyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ukudandatheka kunye nokudabuka kuyamlawula, okwenza ukuba acinge ngokuzibulala.
- Xa ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ukuba lithenga amashiti amaninzi kwaye liwathengisa ngexabiso eliphantsi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwintsebenziswano enkulu yoshishino eya kumzisela imali eninzi kunye nemali.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ezibona ethenga ishidi elingcolileyo ephupheni libonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kuphangwa Kufuneka aqaphele kwaye agcine ubucwebe bakhe kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba uthengela umhlobo wakhe umbhede webhedi kwaye umhlophe omhlophe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukudibanisa kwakhe okukhulu kunye noxhumo oluqinileyo phakathi kwabo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nombhede omkhulu kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ibhedi enkulu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba unesimo esikhethekileyo phakathi komyeni wakhe kunye nosapho.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ibhedi ecocekileyo necocekileyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uyamthanda kakhulu umyeni wakhe kwaye uzimisele ukumnika yonke into ayifunayo ukuze azive ekhululekile kwaye evuya.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona umbhede ongacocekanga ephupheni ubonisa ukuba ujongene neengxaki ezininzi kunye nemiqobo ethintela ukuba aphile ubomi bakhe ngokuqhelekileyo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ephupheni lithenga umandlalo omtsha, oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumnika inzala yakhe elungileyo eya kuba nembopheleleko kuye.
- Ukubona umbhede wokhuni ephupheni kubonisa inzuzo kunye nezinto ezintle eziya kubonwa ngumfazi otshatileyo kwaye azise uvuyo entliziyweni yakhe.
- Ukubona ibhedi emdaka ephupheni kubonisa ukuba kufuneka alungise ubudlelwane bakhe neqabane lakhe kuba izinto zisenokuba mbi ngakumbi phakathi kwabo kwaye zikhokelela kuqhawulo-mtshato.
