Ukutshintsha izicathulo ephupheni
- Ukuzibona utshintshisa izicathulo nomnye umntu ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba umphuphi unobudlelwane obuninzi besifazane kwaye kufuneka amoyike uThixo kwaye atshintshe ukuze angajongani neengxaki.
- Ukuba umntu ephupheni ubona ukuba uguqula izicathulo zakhe zibe yizihlangu zabasetyhini, oku kubonisa umgangatho ophezulu kunye nesikhundla esiya kukufumana emsebenzini wakhe kwaye oko kuya kumenza ahluke kwabanye oontanga bakhe.
- Ukuba umntu ephupheni ubona ukuba utshintshe izicathulo zibe yizicathulo zabasetyhini, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana ithuba elikhethekileyo emsebenzini oya kuphakamisa isimo sakhe.
- Ukubona umntu ekhupha izicathulo zakhe ngelixa ehamba ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo entliziyweni yakhe, okuya kubangela ukukhungatheka nokuphelelwa ithemba.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona egqoke izicathulo eziphakamileyo ephupheni, oku kuphawu lweentsikelelo kunye nobutyebi obuninzi obuya kuba yinto yakhe ngokukhawuleza.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutshintsha izicathulo kunye nomnye umntu kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ukuba utshintshisa izicathulo nomntu ongaziwayo ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lothando kunye nenceba edibanisa naye kunye neqabane lakhe, okanye ukuba kungekudala uya kusikelelwa ngomntwana.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ephupheni egqoke izicathulo eziqinileyo, oku kubonisa ukuba uhamba ngexesha loxinzelelo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakhe, kwaye oku kumenza afune ukushiya yonke into kwaye ahambe.
- Umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ethenga izicathulo ezibanzi ephupheni ufuzisela ubuninzi kunye neentsikelelo ezininzi eziya kuba yinto yakhe kungekudala.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba utshintshisa izicathulo nomyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa uxolo kunye nokuzola ahlala kuyo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona izicathulo eziphakamileyo ephupheni ubonisa ukuba unendawo ephakamileyo kwiintliziyo zabo bajikelezile, kwaye oku kumenza aneliseke.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona ephupheni linxibe izicathulo ezinezithende eziphakamileyo, oku kubonisa ubomi obutofotofo kunye nokuzinza kwemali ahlala kuyo.
Ukutolikwa kwezicathulo ezindala kwiphupha lomfazi omnye
- Ukubona intombazana enxibe izihlangu ezidala ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uyayiphepha ixesha elidlulileyo, kodwa isamkhathaza, nto leyo emenza azive exinezelekile kwaye exhalabile.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona izicathulo ezindala ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kudibana nabahlobo bakhe bakudala kungekudala.
- Xa intombazana ibona isicathulo esidala esiyithandayo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uneemvakalelo kumntu kwaye unqwenela ukutshata naye.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona izicathulo ezindala ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubuyela emsebenzini kwindawo endala.
- Ukubona intombazana egqoke izicathulo ezindala ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uziva elangazelela abantu abathile abangasekho ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona izicathulo ezindala ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokunyaniseka nokuzinikela kwakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokulibala izicathulo ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona ukuba ihamba ngeembadada endleleni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ujongene neengxaki ezithile kunye neqabane lakhe, kwaye oku kubenza bahlukane.
- Ukuba intombazana izibona igqoke izicathulo emva kokuba ingenazihlangu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kutshata nomntu olungileyo, ophethe kakuhle kwaye ahlale naye ngolonwabo kunye nokuchuma.
- Ukuba intombazana izibona ihamba ngeembadada ephupheni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ujongene nobunzima obuninzi kunye nemiqobo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe.
- Ukubona intombazana ehamba phezu kwesanti ephupheni ifanekisela ukuba umfanekiso wakhe phakathi kwabantu uchaphazelekayo ngezenzo zakhe ezingalinganiyo.
- Ukubaleka esitratweni enganxibanga zihlangu ephupheni lentombazana kubonisa ukuba uzama ngandlela zonke kwaye usebenza ngomzamo wakhe wonke ukufezekisa oko akufunayo kunye nokufumana imali kumthombo osemthethweni.
- Ukubukela ukukhulula izicathulo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kuphila ixesha elibi kunye neqabane lakhe eliya kwenza ubudlelwane babo bube kude kwaye bube bubi ixesha elithile.
- Ukuzibona ukhulula izihlangu zakho ephupheni kufanekisela iingxaki kunye neengxaki ohlangabezana nazo ezenza ukuba uhlale kude nabantu abaninzi.
Ukutolikwa kokubona ukulahlekelwa kwesihlangu esinemibala ephupheni
- Xa umntu ebona ukuba ulahlekelwe isihlangu sakhe esiphuzi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uphila ngokudinwa kunye nobunzima, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ukugula kunye nokukhathala okuya kuhamba naye ixesha elithile kwaye kumenze ahlupheke ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba wakwazi ukufumana isicathulo esiphuzi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba amatyala akhe ayanda ngenxa yokonakala kweprojekthi embi angena kuyo.
- Nabani na obona ukuba ulahlekelwe isicathulo sakhe esibomvu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulishiya ilizwe ukuze achithe iholide evuyayo.
- Ukuba umntu ubona isicathulo esiluhlaza silahlekile ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuphuma ngaphandle kwelizwe ukuze afunde okungakumbi ngenkolo yakhe aze asondele kuThixo.
