Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutya
- Ukuba intombazana izibona idla ukutya okonakeleyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uhamba nobunzima obuninzi kwaye oku kuye kwambeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
- Ukubona ukutya ephupheni kufanekisela ulonwabo kunye nezinto ezonwabileyo eziza kuba nazo umphuphi kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba udla ukutya okuninzi kunye nezihlobo zakhe okanye abahlobo bakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo buya kuphucula kwaye naziphi na iingxabano ezazikho phakathi kwabo kwixesha elidlulileyo ziya kunyamalala.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba udla ukutya kunye nomyeni wakhe kunye nabo bonke abantwana bakhe, kwaye ukutya kuqulethe inyama eninzi kunye nenkukhu, oku kubonisa ubudlelwane obukhulu kunye nothando olubadibanisa ngokwenene.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukutya kwaye sele eza kukutya, kodwa ufumanisa ukuba iphunga elibi kwaye akakwazi ukulidla, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuhlukana nomlingane wakhe, okuya kubangela ukuba adandatheke.
Ukutolikwa kokubona ukutya ephupheni kumntu
- Ukuba indoda eqhawule umtshato izibona isitya ukutya okonakeleyo okunuka kakubi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo kuba iqabane lakhe belingamfanelanga kwaye belimbangela ingxaki enkulu.
- Ukubona umntu epheka ukutya kwaye ukupheka ngokukhawuleza ephupheni kubonisa ukuba ucinga ngobulumko nangengqiqo ngaphambi kokuthatha nayiphi na inyathelo ebomini bakhe, kwaye oku kumenza athathe indlela efanelekileyo ngokuzithemba okupheleleyo.
- Ukuba umntu ophuphayo uzibona epheka ukutya kwaye upheka ngokukhawuleza, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuphelisa uxinzelelo kunye nokudinwa kwakhe, okuya kuphucula imeko yakhe yengqondo.
- Umphuphi ozibona ejonge ukutya okumnandi kakhulu kwaye unephunga elimnandi ephupheni uvakalisa ukuba uya kutshata nentombazana ahlala enqwenela ukuba ibe yikamva lakhe.
- Indoda ephupha isitya ukutya okonakeleyo okungafanelanga kutyiwa ibonakalisa ukungaphumeleli kwayo esikolweni njengoontanga bayo, nto leyo imenza akhathazeke kwaye akhathazeke.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuphakela ukutya kwizalamane
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona linikezela ngokutya kwizihlobo ephupheni, olu luphawu loxolo noxolo ahlala kulo kunye nentsapho yakhe kunye nabasondeleyo kuye.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona enika izihlobo ukutya, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kufezekisa injongo enkulu ebeyifuna ixesha elide.
- Ukuzibona unikezela ukutya kwizalamane ephupheni kufanekisela ukuphuculwa kobudlelwane bomntu kunye nokusondelana ngakumbi kunye nezihlobo zakhe, okwenza umntu azive ekhululekile.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona enika izalamane ephupheni ukutya, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana iindaba ezivuyisayo eziya kumenza azive evuya kwaye evuya.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nelayisi emhlophe kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa ibhinqa libona irayisi kwaye liyipheka ngenyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa impumelelo kunye neentsikelelo eziza kunandipha kwiminyaka ezayo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona elungiselela irayisi kwaye uyonwabile ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba enye yeentombi zakhe iya kutshata ngokukhawuleza, kwaye oku kuya kumvuyisa kakhulu kwaye ajabule.
- Ukuba umyeni unikeza inani elikhulu lerayisi ephekiweyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kufumana izinto ezilungileyo.
- Iingxowa zelayisi ephupheni ziluphawu lokuba uya kuba nendlu entsha, evulekileyo engcono kuneyakhe yangoku.
- Ukuba umyeni uzisa iingxowa zelayisi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufudukela kumsebenzi obalaseleyo aze afumane igunya eliphezulu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutya inkukhu ethosiweyo
- Ukuba intombazana izibona idla inkukhu ethosiweyo ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kutshata nomntu othembekileyo nolungileyo.
- Ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba ithenga inkukhu eyosiweyo, oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kufumana impumelelo kunye nezikhundla ezininzi kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba intombazana izibona idla inkukhu eyosiweyo ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba ifumana imali eninzi kwimithombo engekho mthethweni, kwaye kufuneka yoyike uThixo kwaye igweme izenzo zayo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lidla inkukhu eyosiweyo, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana izinto ezininzi ezintle eziza kumenza azive anelisekile kwaye ekhululekile.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona edla imilenze yenkukhu kunye neentloko, oku kubonisa ukuba uhamba kwiingxaki ezininzi kunye nemicimbi enzima, embeka kwimeko ephantsi yengqondo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lidla imilenze yenkukhu kunye neenyawo, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kukwazi ukufikelela kwiimpumelelo ezininzi ebomini bakhe, okuya kubangela ukuba azuze ubutyebi obukhulu.
