Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokumanga umntu
- Ukumanga nokumanga uyihlo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi unobudlelwane obuqinileyo noyise ngokwenene, okwenza ukuba asondele kakhulu kuye.
- Nabani na ozibona ewola yaye ephuza umzalwana wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa inkxaso noncedo alufumana kumzalwana wakhe ngamaxesha onke.
- Ukwamkela nokwamkela umama ogulayo ephupheni kubonisa ukulangazelela komphuphi ukuba abe nomthwalo kuye kunye nokuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zakhe.
- Ukuncamisa umntu emlonyeni ephupheni lentombazana kufanekisela ukuba intlebendwane nentlebendwane, yaye imele yoyike uThixo ukuze ingafumani isohlwayo esibuhlungu.
- Ukuphuza emlonyeni ephupheni kubonisa iingenelo ezininzi kunye neentsikelelo eziza kubonwa ngumphuphi kwixesha elizayo.

Ukutolikwa kokuwola nokuncamisa umntu endimaziyo ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukwanga umntu omaziyo ephupheni lentombazana ufuzisela intuthuzelo kunye nokuqinisekiswa ahlala kuyo kunye nentsapho yakhe kunye nabasondeleyo kuye, kwaye kumbeka kwimeko efanelekileyo yengqondo.
- Ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba iyamanga kwaye yanga umntu, oku kufanekisela ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuzaliswa ngeentsikelelo ezininzi kunye nokulunga.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba uyamanga esinye sezihlobo zakhe, oku kufanekisela ukunyamalala kweenkxalabo zakhe kunye nosizi kunye nokuphumelela kwakhe zonke izinto ezimbi awayehamba nazo.
- Ukumanga umntu omaziyo ongatshatanga ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi udibanisa namantombazana anegama elibi elimkhokelela ekubeni enze izono kunye nezikreqo. Ufanele ahlale kude kubo.
- Ukuwola nokuncamisa iinyawo zomntu endimaziyo ephupheni lomfazi ongatshatanga kubonisa ukuba usentlungwini enkulu kwaye unethemba lokufumana inkxaso kwabo bamngqongileyo.
- Ukumanga unyawo lomntu otshatileyo ephupheni kubonisa ukubonakaliswa kwenkohliso kunye nokungcatshwa ngabantu abasondeleyo kuye, okumenza azive engenathemba.
- Ukwanga umphathi kwiphupha lomfazi omnye kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana ithuba elikhulu lokunyuselwa eliya kumnceda afezekise injongo enkulu awayeyilangazelela.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokumanga esidleleni kumfazi ongatshatanga
- Intombazana ephuza isihlathi somntu ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uya kuzuza into kuloo mntu kungekudala.
- Ukuba intombazana izibona iphuza umntu esidleleni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana izinto ezintle eziza kumenza aphile ngovuyo kunye nolonwabo.
- Ukuqabula isihlathi ephupheni kubonisa izinto ezivuyayo kunye neziganeko apho umphuphi uya kufumana kunye nosapho lwakhe kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, okuya kumenza azive evuya.
- Ukuphuza isidlele ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumenza umphuphi aphumeze izinto ezinkulu ebekade ezinqwenela.
- Ukuqabula intombazana esidleleni ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwintsebenziswano enkulu yezoshishino eya kuba yinto ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabantu.
- Ukubona intombazana ephuza isihlathi ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uya kungena kubudlelwane bothando nomntu ofanelekileyo kwaye baya kugqiba emtshatweni ovuyayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuwola nokumanga
- Nabani na obona ukuwolwa nokuncanyiswa ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba uThixo uya kumvulela indlela umphuphi ukuze afeze oko akufunayo.
- Nabani na ozibona ewola yaye ephuza umntu ephupheni, olu luphawu lokuba uziva enombulelo kuye ngenxa yobuninzi bokulunga awakufumana ngaye.
- Ukuwola nokuncamisa umntu ongamaziyo ephupheni kubonisa inkxaso nenkathalo oyifumana kwabo bakungqongileyo ngamaxesha obunzima.
- Ukwamkela umntu ohambahambayo ngokumanga kunye nokumanga ephupheni kubonisa ukubuya komntu ongekho kwilizwe, okwenza ukuba umphuphi azive evuya kunye nolonwabo.
- Ukumanga nokumanga umntu ofileyo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali eninzi ngaye.
- Ukuqabula nokumbamba intloko yomntu ofileyo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi unentliziyo enobubele kwaye uxolela wonke umntu, okwenza ukuba wonke umntu axhamle kuye, ngoko kufuneka atshintshe loo nto.