Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulwa
- Xa umntu ezibona ephupheni exambulisana nezalamane zakhe ngaphandle kwekhaya, oku kubonisa ukuba uya phesheya ukuze afumane umsebenzi ofanelekileyo oya kumzisela inzuzo enkulu.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ephikisana nezalamane zakhe ngaphandle kwekhaya ephupheni, oku kubonisa iintsikelelo ezininzi kunye nezinto ezintle eziza kuba yinto yakhe kungekudala.
- Ukuzibona uxambulisana nezalamane kwaye ethetha amazwi amabi ephupheni ufuzisela izono kunye nezenzo ezingavumelekanga ukuba umntu azenzayo kwaye umgama lowo kuThixo.
- Ukuzibona exambulisana nezalamane zakhe yaye esebenzisa intetho engamanyala ephupheni kubonisa imfuneko yokuba ahlolisise izenzo zakhe aze aguqukele kuThixo ngaphambi kokuba ashiywe lixesha.
- Ukubona ingxabano kunye nezalamane zoyise ephupheni baze baxolelane ngokukhawuleza emva koko kubonisa ukoyisa imiqobo kunye neengxaki eziye zachaphazela iimeko zakhe ixesha elide.
- Ukubona umntu esilwa nezihlobo esebenzisa izixhobo ephupheni ubonisa ubunzima kunye nentlupheko ahlala kuyo, okwenza ukuba angakwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha ngokuxabana nabantu endingabaziyo
- Ukuzibona uxabana nabantu ongabaziyo ephupheni kufanekisela iinkathazo nezinto ezimbi ojongene nazo ezenza ubomi bakho bubenzima.
- Ukuba umntu uphupha exabana nabantu angabaziyo, loo nto ibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakhe nabantu ababaziyo bunzima, nto leyo ekhokelela kumsantsa phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ephikisana nomnye wabahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwishishini eliphumelelayo kunye naloo mntu oya kumzisela imali eninzi.
- Ukuzibona ephikisana nomhlobo osondeleyo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba iinkalo ezininzi zobomi ziya kuphucula, okuya kwenza umntu azive anelisekile.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuxabana noyise womfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona uyise ephikisana nentombi yakhe ekhulelweyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uzama ukumkhusela nokumgcina ekhuselekile ebubini nasebubini.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona abazali bakhe bephikisana nomyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uyise uphazamisa kakhulu ebomini bakhe, okudala iingxaki phakathi kwakhe neqabane lakhe.
- Xa umfazi okhulelweyo ebona uyise ephethe imela efuna ukubulala umntwana ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uza kwenzakaliswa yaye umntwana wakhe uya kwenzakaliswa, yaye umele azilumkele ngokwakhe ukuze angalahlekelwa ngumntwana wakhe.
- Ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo ebethwa nguyise ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uyise akanelisekanga ngezenzo zakhe, kwaye kufuneka azame ukuziphucula kwaye azitshintshe zibe ngcono.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona uyise ephakamisa ilizwi lakhe kumyeni wakhe ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba iqabane lakhe liya kubandezeleka ngenxa yokugula kwixesha elizayo eliya kumthintela ekwenzeni imisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla ixesha elithile.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona uyise emgxotha kunye nomyeni wakhe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba yena kunye neqabane lakhe bathatha iindlela ezigwenxa kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze angangeni engxakini.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga libona ephupheni ukuba uyise uyamxhaphaza ukuze amnyanzele ukuba akhuphe umntwana, oku bubungqina bokuba akazange afune ukuba atshate neqabane lakhe kwaye wamkela umtshato ngokuchasene nentando yakhe kuba ebona ukuba wayehlupheka ngenxa yentlupheko kunye naye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neengxabano kunye nentsapho yomyeni
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona lixambulisana nosapho lomyeni walo ephupheni, olu luphawu lokuba uphila kwimeko yokungazinzi nokungakhululeki ngenxa yeengxaki ezininzi adibana nazo nomyeni wakhe kwanabo basondelelene naye, kwaye kufuneka azame ukulungisa izinto phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba uxabana nomyeni wakhe emva kweemeko ezihlazo, oku kubonisa ukuba ulahlekelwa yinkathalo kunye nenkxaso evela kumlingane wakhe, okwenza ukuba abe nesizungu.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona lidakumbile emva kokungavisisani phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uziva ecinezelekile yaye ephethwe kakubi ngabo bamngqongileyo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona enomsindo ngenxa yokungavumelani nentsapho yomyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uceba ububi nobubi kwintsapho yomyeni wakhe, kwaye kufuneka azame ukutshintsha loo nto ukuze angangeni engxakini.
- Ingxabano nentsapho yomyeni emva kokulwa ephupheni ibonisa ukuba usizi kunye neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ziyamlawula ngenxa yokuba ucinga kakhulu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nengxabano kwaye emva koko uxolelwaniso ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ephupha exabana nomyeni wakhe aze axolelane aze acele uxolo kuye, oku kubonisa ukungahambi kakuhle kobudlelwane babo, kodwa uya kukwazi ukuphucula ubudlelwane kunye nokugcina umyeni wakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephikisana nobudlova kunye nomyeni wakhe kwaye umntu ongaziwayo uza kubaxolelanisa ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umntu utyhola ubomi bakhe ukutyhila zonke iimfihlo zakhe ebantwini, kwaye kufuneka aqaphele.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona lixolelana nomntu asebenza naye ephupheni awayengavisisani ngalo, oku kubonisa inceba kunye neemvakalelo ezintle ezizalisa intliziyo yakhe kwaye zenze wonke umntu amthande kwaye amxabise.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ezibona ephikisana nomntu osebenza naye wesilisa emsebenzini, emva koko axolelane naye kwaye axolise kuye ephupheni kubonisa umdla oqhelekileyo oya kungena kunye naloo mfazi kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba umfazi uzibona ezama ukuxolelana nomyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana iindaba ezimbi malunga nomntu amkhathalele kakhulu, okuya kumenza azive ezisola kwaye ebuhlungu.
