Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa yintombi yam kumfazi otshatileyo
Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona abantwana bakhe belahlekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba abantwana bakhe bayamdinga, kodwa akazikhathaleli kwaye ukuba akayeki, uya kubangela ukutshatyalaliswa kwekhaya lakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona umntwana wakhe elahlekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuxhalaba kunye nesimo sengqondo esibi esijongene nayo, esibangela ukuba angafuni ukwenza nantoni na ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona intombi yakhe ilahlekile ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba ujikelezwe ngabantu abaninzi abakhohlakeleyo nabanomona kwaye unqwenela ukuba bahlale kude naye.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona intombi yakhe elahlekileyo ephupheni ibonisa ububi kunye nomonakalo ozalise iintliziyo zabo bajikelezileyo kwaye ubenze bazame ukonakalisa ubudlelwane bakhe nomyeni wakhe nangayiphi na indlela.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokulahlekelwa yintombi yam kwaye andizange ndiyifumane
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwaye ayikwazi ukuyifumana ephupheni, olu luphawu lobunzima kunye neengxaki ahamba nazo ezithintela ukuba angabunandiphe ubomi bakhe.
- Xa ibhinqa libona intombi yakhe ilahlekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa utshintsho olubi ahamba nalo olwenza imeko yekhaya lakhe ibe nzima kwaye ingalungelelaniswa.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona umntwana olahlekileyo kwaye akakwazi ukumfumana ephupheni, oku kubonisa iingxabano kunye neengxabano ezijongene nazo kunye nabo bajikelezayo, ezibangela ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo bube kude.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwaye ayinakuyifumana, oku kubonisa ukuba kufuneka aphucule ubudlelwane bakhe kunye neqabane lakhe ukuze lingabi mbi.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwaye akakwazi ukuyifumana ephupheni, oku kubonisa iingcamango ezimbi ezilawula umfazi kwaye zimenze azive ecinezelekile kwaye ekhathele.
Ndiphuphe intombi yam ilahlekile kwaye ephupheni ndilila kwaye ndikhathazekile
- Ukubona intombi elahlekileyo kunye nokukhala ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba intombi iya kushiya ilizwe ukuze ifune ulwazi, kwaye oku kuya kwenza uyise abe lusizi.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona intombi yakhe ilahleka kwimarike ngelixa ehamba ecaleni kwakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kufuneka ahlaziye ukuziphatha kwentombi yakhe kwaye ayeke ukwenza oko.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwaye akanakuze ayifumane ephupheni, oku kubonisa impatho embi kunye nokuxhatshazwa abanika abantwana bakhe, okubangele ukuba bambaleke ngokwenene kwaye bagweme ukujongana naye.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwilizwe elingaziwayo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba yena nabantwana bakhe baya kutshintsha indawo yabo yokuhlala kwixesha elizayo.
- Iphupha lomfazi malunga nokulahlekelwa yintombi yakhe enkulu libonisa ubudlelwane obubi phakathi kwakhe neqabane lakhe.
Ndiphuphe intombi yam ilahlekile, kwaye ephupheni bendikhala kwaye ndikhathazekile ngomfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukuba intombazana isebenza kwaye ibona intombi yakhe ilahleka ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulahlekelwa ngulo msebenzi ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwaye ayikwazi ukumfumana, oku kubonisa ukuba uziva ebuhlungu kwaye ecinezeleke kakhulu ngenxa yokungakwazi kwakhe ukufezekisa into ebeyizama ixesha elide.
- Ukuba intombazana ibandakanyeka kwaye ibona intombi yakhe ilahleka ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kumshiya ngokwenene ngenxa yokungabikho kokuqonda phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba intombi yakhe ilahlekile kwaye ayinakuyifumana, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuthotywa kwaye adideke ngumhlobo, oya kumenza angakwazi ukuthembela nabani na.
Ndiphuphe intombi yam ilahlekile, kwaye ephupheni ndilila kwaye ndikhathazekile ngomfazi okhulelweyo
- Xa ibhinqa elikhulelweyo libona ukudinwa nokugula okuhamba naye ebudeni bokukhulelwa kwakhe kwaye kumenza angakwazi ukunandipha ubomi bakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elikhulelweyo libona ephupheni ukuba intombi yakhe yalahleka ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeletha, oku kubonisa ukuba umntwana wakhe uya kubonakaliswa ingozi enkulu emva kokuzalwa, okuya kumbeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona intombi yakhe ilahlekile ephupheni ufuzisela iindaba ezimbi eziya kuzifumana kungekudala, eziza kwenza isimo sakhe sengqondo sibi.
