Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhamba esitratweni ebusuku kumfazi ongatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona ihamba yodwa ebusuku ephupheni, oku kuluphawu lokuthuthuzela kunye nobomi obonwabileyo kunye nozinzile ukuba aphile, ngakumbi ukuba indlela inde.
- Ukuba intombazana izibona ihamba esitratweni ebusuku ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuphunyuka kwakhe kwimeko enzima kunye neengxaki ezazimthintela ukuba enze inkqubela ebomini bakhe.
- Umphuphi obona indlela emnyama kwaye ehamba yedwa kuyo, oku kubonisa usizi olunzulu kunye nosizi aluvayo, kwaye unqwenela ukufumana umntu wokuthuthuzela ukuhlala kwakhe yedwa kwaye eme kuye.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona lihamba esitratweni kunye neqela labahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kubandakanyeka kwindoda elilungisa kunye neyongcwele.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhamba kwindlela ende yowesifazane otshatileyo
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona ehamba indlela ende ephupheni luphawu lokuba uhlala ekhathalele intsapho yakhe kwaye uzama ukubenza bazive bekhululekile.
- Umphuphi ozibona ehamba yedwa kwindlela ende ubonisa ukuba unengqondo kwaye unengqondo enkulu, egcina ukuba kude nayo nayiphi na into embi okanye ingozi enokumehlela.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lihamba endleleni egcwele iintyatyambo, oku kuthetha ukuba unothando oluninzi kunye neemvakalelo ezintle kumyeni wakhe kwaye unqwenela ukuhlala naye ubomi bakhe bonke.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona lihamba kwindlela ende yaye linetha ephupheni, oku kuluphawu lokulunga, intabalala, neentsikelelo eziya kuza ebomini bakhe kungekudala.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ehamba ixesha elide emvuleni, oku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uya kukhulelwa, kwaye oku kuya kuzisa uvuyo kunye nolonwabo entliziyweni yakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lihamba ixesha elide kwaye elinye lamalungu entsapho yakhe ligula, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuphila kwaye abuyele ekuphileni ubomi bakhe ngokuqhelekileyo kwixesha elizayo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona ehamba umgama omde enxibe iimpahla ezintle ephupheni luphawu lokuba ungumntu oyikhathaleleyo inkangeleko yakhe nokumila kwakhe ngokubanzi kwaye uzimisele ukubonakala emhle ebantwini.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhamba ngaphandle kwezicathulo kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ibhinqa elizibona lihamba lingenazihlangu ephupheni luphawu lobomi obuvunyiweyo ahlala kunye neqabane lakhe, okwenza ubomi babo bube bugcwele isiphithiphithi kunye noxinzelelo.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba ulahlekelwe isicathulo sakhe kwaye wayehamba kwaye ekhangele, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo entliziyweni yakhe, eya kumbeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona lihamba lithe cwaka yaye liziva lidiniwe, oku kubonisa ukuba liya kuba nengxaki enkulu yempilo apho liya kufuna umntu wokulixhasa aze alincede koko likufunayo.
- Ukuba umphuphi ulahlekelwa isicathulo sakhe kwaye uyifumana, kwaye ufumanisa ukuba uye waba yincinci, oku kufanekisela ukuba omnye wabantwana bakhe ujongene nengxaki enkulu, kodwa uyayihoxisa. Kufuneka asondele kuye kwaye azame ukumnceda ukuba aphume kuyo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ukhulelwe kwaye uzibona ehamba ngeembadada ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukudinwa kunye nokudinwa okuya kuhamba naye kulo lonke ukukhulelwa kwakhe kwaye bonakalise uvuyo lwakhe nomntwana wakhe.
- Umbono ozibona ehamba enganxibanga zihlangu de iinyawo zakhe zibuhlungu ephupheni uvakalisa ukuba uya kuboniswa isiganeko esingathandekiyo kwixesha elizayo, eliya kumbeka kwimeko yokudakumba.
Ukutolikwa kokubona umntu ehamba esitratweni ephupheni kunye nentsingiselo yalo
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ehamba esitratweni kunye nomntu osondeleyo kuye ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ungumntu oqhubekayo onamabhongo aphezulu kwaye uzama ukutshintsha iinkalo ezininzi zobomi bakhe.
- Ukubona indoda ehamba nabantu abangabaziyo ephupheni ifuzisela ukuba ufumana ixesha lokuguquguquka okuchaphazela isimo sakhe sengqondo kunye nokumenza afune ukuzihlukanisa nabantu.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ehamba esitratweni kunye nomntu omaziyo ephupheni, oku kuphawu lwamathuba akhethekileyo aya kufumaneka kuye kwaye uya kwenza ubomi bakhe bube ngcono kunangaphambili.
- Umphuphi ozibona ehamba ngendlela ethe tye ufuzisela ukukhululeka kunye nokulula ubomi bakhe buya kuqhubeka, okumenza ukuba afikelele kwiinjongo zakhe ngaphandle kokudinwa okanye ubunzima.
- Nabani na ozibona ehamba endleleni ephupheni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba unqwenela into ethile kwaye uzama ukuyifezekisa ngandlela-thile.
Uhambo olude kubafazi abakhulelweyo
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona ehamba indlela ende ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uhamba ngexesha lokudinwa kunye nobunzima ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwakhe, kwaye oku kumenza abe buhlungu ngamaxesha onke.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ephupha ukuba uhamba umgama omde kunye nomyeni wakhe ubonisa inkathalo kunye nenkxaso ayifumana kuye ngokusisigxina, okwenza ubuhlobo babo buqine.
- Ibhinqa elikhulelweyo elizibona lihamba umgama omde de lingasakwazi ukuhamba ephupheni libonisa ukuba sele liza kubeleka, yaye oku kuya kumenza azive ekhululekile yaye aphelise naziphi na iintlungu awayezinyamezele kwixesha elidluleyo.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ehamba endleleni egcwele i-hyenas, ebangela ukuba enzekaliswa, oku kuyimpawu yeengxaki zempilo eya kuba nazo ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwakhe, kwaye ukuba akajongani nazo ngokufanelekileyo, uya kulahlekelwa ngumntwana wakhe.
