Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezinja ezimdaka kumntu
- Ukuba umntu ubona izinja ezimdaka ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kufuneka aqaphele kuba abo bajikelezile banenjongo embi kunye nokulimaza kuye.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona izinja ezimdaka, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuhlangabezana nemiqobo emininzi ngenxa yeentshaba zakhe, eziya kumthintela ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakhe.
- Ukubona izinja ezimdaka ephupheni kufanekisela umfazi okhohlakeleyo ozama ukusondela kuye kwaye angene kubudlelwane obunqatshelwe kunye naye, ngoko kufuneka aqaphele.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona izinja ezimdaka, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuba neenguqu ezininzi emsebenzini ngexesha elifutshane, eliya kumtyhila kwisisongelo sokugxothwa.
- Izinja eziBrown ephupheni zibonisa ukuba uya kuva iindaba ezininzi ezimbi kwixesha elizayo, eliya kumbeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
Ithini intsingiselo yokubona izinja zindileqa ephupheni?
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona izinja zimsukela, oku kubonisa ukuba kukho abantu abathetha kakubi ngaye kwaye kufuneka ajamelane nabo.
- Ukubona izinja zixosha umphuphi ephupheni kubonisa umntu olandela iinyawo zakhe kwaye uzama ukutyhila iimfihlo zakhe ukuze azisasaze phakathi kwabantu.
- Izinja ezindisukela ephupheni zibonisa ukuba iimvakalelo ezimbi kunye nokudabuka zilawula umntu, kwaye kufuneka azame ukuphuma kwelo xesha ngokukhawuleza ukuze angangeni engxakini.
- Umphuphi obona izinja zimsukela ubonisa ukuba uthwele izinto ezininzi ezingaphaya kwamandla akhe, ngoko kufuneka aphumle.
- Umntu obona izinja zimleqa ephupheni ubonisa ukuba iintshaba zakhe zimenzela amayelenqe, kwaye kufuneka alumke angaweli kwimigibe yazo.
Ukudlala nezinja ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Umfazi ozibona edlala nezinja ephupheni uvakalisa ukuba ujongene nemiqobo emininzi ebomini bakhe emenza angakwazi ukuyonwabela.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona edlala nezinja kwindawo angayazi, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nexesha eligcwele ukuguquguquka kubomi bakhe bobugcisa, okuya kukhokelela ekugxothweni kwakhe.
- Ukudlala kunye nenani elikhulu lezinja ephupheni libonisa ubomi obubi ahlala kunye nomyeni wakhe, okwenza ukuba afune ukuhlukana naye.
- Uvuyo ngelixa udlala nezinja ephupheni lubonisa ulonwabo kunye nolonwabo oya kuba nalo kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lidlala nezinja ezimnyama, oku kubonisa ukuba ikusasa liphethe izinto ezininzi ezimangalisayo nezithandekayo kuye, eziza kumenza aphile ngokunethezeka kunye nokuthuthuzela.
Izinja zihlasela ephupheni
- Ukuhlaselwa zizinja ephupheni kubonisa imfuneko yomphuphi ukuba alumke angaphulukani noxolo ahlala kulo.
- Umphuphi obona izinja ezininzi zimhlasela uvakalisa ukuba uhlala enomdla wokubonelela ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso kwabo bajikelezile.
- Inja ebomvu ehlasela umyeni ephupheni ibonisa isidingo kunye nentlupheko eya kujamelana nayo umphuphi kwixesha elizayo, kwaye kufuneka akhangele umsebenzi ofanelekileyo ukuze aphume kuyo kunye nebhasikidi yakhe.
- Inja ehlasela udade womphuphi esibhedlele ibonisa ukuba udade wakhe ujongene nengxaki yezempilo kwaye kufuneka azinakekele ukuze imeko ingabi mbi.
- Ukuba umntu ubona izinja zimhlasela ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kufuneka agcine iinkumbulo zakhe kunye neRuqyah esemthethweni ukuze uThixo amkhusele ebubini nakwiliso elibi.
