Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesofa ekrazukileyo
- Nabani na obona isihlalo esitsha sokhuni ephupheni, oku kuluphawu lotshintsho kunye nezinto ezonwabileyo eziya kuba yinto yakhe kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni ehleli kwi-sofa ekrazukileyo, oko kuthetha iingxaki kunye nemicimbi enzima eya kudlula kuyo, ebangela ukuba abandezeleke kwaye adinwe.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni ekwibhedi ekrazukileyo, oku kubonisa ukuba wenza izono ezininzi nezenzo ezingavumelekanga, yaye umele aguquke kuThixo ukuze angazisoli kamva.
- Nabani na ozibona elele kwisofa ekrazukileyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuba nengxaki enkulu yezempilo eya kumvalela ebhedini kangangexesha elithile.
- Nabani na obona umva wesofa ekhangeleka kakuhle ephupheni, oku kubonisa ikamva eliqaqambileyo eliya kuba lithamsanqa lakhe kwixesha elizayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nefenitshala yokulala yowesifazane ongatshatanga
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ifenitshala yokulala ephupheni, oku kuluphawu lolonwabo kunye nezinto ezimangalisayo eziya kuzifumana kungekudala.
- Ukubona ifenitshala yokulala ephupheni kubonisa ukwaneliseka kunye nokwaneliseka okumbonakalisayo kwaye kumenze amkele nayiphi na into embi ehamba ngayo ngentliziyo evulekile.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ibhedi njengenxalenye yefenitshala yendlu yakhe, oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kudibana nomntu othembekileyo kunye nokuziphatha kakuhle kwaye atshate naye kungekudala.
- Ukubona intombazana ephupheni njenge-closet yefenitshala yasekhaya ifanekisela ukuba ungumntu olumkileyo ongathembi nabani na ngokulula.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona kwiofisi yakhe kwigumbi langasese ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uzama ngandlela zonke ukuphumeza impumelelo eninzi ebomini bakhe bezemfundo.
- Intombazana ebona umntu ezama ukungena egumbini lakhe kwaye ejonge ifenitshala ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uyayikhathalela kakhulu ukubonakala kwakhe, okwenza ukuba ahlale ekhangeleka.
- Ndingene egumbini lam lokulala kukho umntu omhle ephupheni libonisa ukuba uyabagweba abantu ngenkangeleko yabo kwaye makazame ukuyitshintsha lonto ngoba izomfaka kwiingxaki ezininzi.
Iphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga malunga nefenitshala yokulala
- Ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba iphinda ihlaziye igumbi kwakhona, oku kubonisa ukuba izinto ezintle nezonwabileyo ziya kwenzeka kuye kungekudala.
- Umphuphi wokudweba ifenitshala yegumbi kwakhona ubonisa ukuba uya kudibana nenani elikhulu labantu abalungileyo abaya kumenza azive ekhululekile.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ingxaki ngepeyinti kwifenitshala yegumbi, njengokuqhekeka okanye iziqwenga eziqinileyo, oku kubonisa ukuba kukho umntu ekhayeni lakhe ozama ukumenza ahlupheke ebomini bakhe, kwaye kufuneka amsuse ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ifenitshala yakhe ihlakazekile kulo lonke igumbi kwaye ingcolile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ujongene nobunzima obuninzi, kodwa uya kukwazi ukulungelelanisa ubomi bakhe ngokukhawuleza.
Isitulo sokhuni kwiphupha lomfazi otshatileyo
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona isihlalo sokhuni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali eninzi ngomsebenzi wakhe.
- Ibhinqa elibona isihlalo sokhuni ekhayeni lakhe ephupheni libonisa ukuphakama kunye nesimo esiphakamileyo esiya kuba sesomyeni wakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona isitulo sokhuni siqhekeza ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuhlukana kwakhe nomlingane wakhe, okuya kubangela ukudabuka kwakhe.
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona iiankile ezininzi ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba uya kuzala abantwana abaninzi ngokukhawuleza kwaye baya kuba nekamva eliqaqambileyo.
- Umphuphi obona umyeni wakhe emnika isitulo esidala somthi, oku kubonisa ukuba kukho abantu abanomona kuye, kwaye kufuneka agcine iinkumbulo zakhe zikaThixo kwaye amoyike uThixo.
- Ukubona umyeni womfazi emnika isitulo somthi ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba unamathele kuye, uyamthanda ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye unqwenela ukuba ahlale naye ngokuthuthuzela kunye nolonwabo.
- Umphuphi ozibona ehleli esihlalweni sokhuni, oku kubonisa ukuphakama kunye nesimo esiphakamileyo esiya kuba sesakhe kwixesha elizayo.
- Umfazi ozibona etyhala isitulo kuye ephupheni ubonisa ukuba ufuna ukuphucula iinkalo ezininzi zobomi bakhe ukuze isimo sakhe sengqondo sitshintshe sibe ngcono.
