Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesikolo kunye nabahlobo
- Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba unqumla isandla somhlobo wakhe wesikolo, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuba neengxaki ezinkulu zempilo.
- Ukubona omnye wabahlobo bakhe bemkhwaza ephupheni kufanekisela iingxabano kunye neengxabano eziya kuba nazo kunye nabahlobo bakhe kwixesha elizayo, eliya kudala umsantsa phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ebamba bonke abahlobo bakhe besikolo kwaye bekhala ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uyabakhumbula kwaye unqwenela ukudibana nabo.
- Ukuhlala nabahlobo bam esikolweni ephupheni nokuba nomsindo kubo kubonisa ukukhululeka nokukhululeka aya kukufumana ebomini bakhe.
- Umbono obona ukuba unomsindo kubahlobo bakhe ephupheni ubonisa abantu abakhohlakeleyo nabanomona abakujikelezile, kwaye kufuneka ahlale kude nabo ukuze angonakaliswa.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nesikolo kunye nabahlobo kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Ibhinqa elizibona lidlala nabahlobo bakhe kwaye livuya ephupheni lifanekisela ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuqinisekiswa okuhlala kuyo kunye nabo basondeleyo kuye.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ophupha ukuba ukhupha iliso lomhlobo wakhe wesikolo, oku kubonisa iimvakalelo ezimbi kunye nentiyo elawulayo kwaye imenze enze izenzo ezithile ezimbi.
- Umphuphi ebulala umhlobo wakhe wesikolo ngelixa ekhala ephupheni uvakalisa ukuzisola kunye nengcinezelo avakalelwa ngayo ngenxa yezinto ezingalunganga azenzayo kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Ukuqabula intloko yomhlobo ephupheni kubonisa ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye neemvakalelo ezidibanisa umphuphi kunye nomhlobo wakhe ngokwenene kwaye udibanise.
- Ukuze umntu ophuphayo abone abahlobo bakhe beba ukutya kwakhe esikolweni kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uza kubonakala ekuphangeni kunye nokuqhekeza, kwaye kufuneka agcine izinto zakhe ezixabisekileyo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.
- Ingxabano phakathi komphuphi kunye nabahlobo bakhe besikolo ephupheni ibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakhe nosapho lwakhe buya kuba nzima kwixesha elizayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokushiya isikolo kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga
- Ukuba intombazana ihlala kwisimo esihle semali kwaye ibona ishiya isikolo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulahlekelwa inxalenye enkulu yemali yakhe, eya kumbeka kwimeko embi yemali.
- Intombazana ezibonayo kwisikolo sayo esidala ephupheni ifuzisela ukuba ivakalelwa kukuba i-nostalgic ngaloo mihla kwaye ifuna ukuyiphila kwakhona.
- Ukuba umntu ophuphayo uzibona eshiya isikolo kunye neengubo zakhe ezigugileyo, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kudibana noxinzelelo oluninzi, oluya kumkhathaza kwaye lumenze akhathazeke.
- Umphuphi obaleka esikolweni ubonisa ukuba akathathi uxanduva kwaye uhlala ebeka kwabanye. Kufuneka ayitshintshe le nto ukuze angazisoli.
- Ukukhala ekubuyeni esikolweni ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi unokuzimisela kunye namabhongo, okwenza ukuba akwazi ukunqoba yonke imiqobo.
- Umphuphi ozibona eyeka isikolo ngokutsiba ucingo ubonisa ukuba imali yakhe uyifumana kwizinto ezikrokrisayo kwaye kufuneka oyike uThixo ukuze angafumani sisohlwayo esibuhlungu.
- Ukuyeka kwakhe isikolo ephupheni onwabile kubonisa ukunyamalala kweentsizi namaxhala akhe nokoyisa kwakhe izinto ezimbi awayedibana nazo.
Umbono ophindaphindiweyo wokuya esikolweni ephupheni lomfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba iya esikolweni rhoqo kunye nomntu omaziyo esikolweni, oku kubonisa ukuba uyamkhumbula loo mntu kwaye unqwenela ukuba unxibelelwano phakathi kwabo lubuyele kwindlela olwaluyiyo ngaphambili.
- Ukungakwazi ukuya esikolweni ngokuphindaphindiweyo ephupheni kubonisa iingxaki kunye neengxaki ezijikeleze umphuphi kwaye zimthintele ekufezekiseni oko akufunayo.
- Ukuba umbonisi uzibona ngokuphindaphindiweyo esiya esikolweni kwaye ecaleni kwengcwaba ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umntu owaziyo ufile kwaye ufuna umntu ukuba amthandazele aze anike izipho.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba uya esikolweni kunye noyise ongasekhoyo, oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka abe namandla kwaye azimisele ngakumbi ukuze anqobe ngokukhawuleza nantoni na ahamba nayo.
- Ukuphupha ngokuya esikolweni nomntu ongamaziyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubonisa ukuba lowo uphuphayo uya kutshata nomntu onesimilo nonodumo oluhle aze ahlale naye ngobunewunewu nokuchuma.
- Intombazana xa ibona udade wayo okhulelweyo ephupheni ebona udade wayo okhulelweyo, ithi lo dade ufuna umntu wokuma ngakuye aze amncede, yaye kufuneka ayenze loo nto ukuze abeleke ngokukhuselekileyo.
