Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nentonga
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba libetha isithandwa sakhe ngentonga, oku kuyimpawu yeengxabano kunye nokungabikho kokuqonda okuya kunqoba kubudlelwane babo kunye nokudala umsantsa omkhulu phakathi kwabo.
- Ukubona intonga yomphuphi ijika ibe yinyoka kwaye ibaleke izimele ifanekisela amandla kunye newonga analo elenza ukuba iintshaba zakhe zimoyike.
- Ukuthengisa intonga yomthi efana ne-crutch ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo ngumntu onobuqhetseba ochitha izinto ezininzi ezikhethekileyo aza kuzisola ngazo kwixesha elizayo.
- I-crutch ewela esandleni somphuphi ephupheni ibonisa ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo ngenxa yokufa kwakhe, okuya kumenza azive ebuhlungu kwaye ecinezelekile.
- Ukulahlekelwa yintonga kunye nokukhala phezu kwayo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi uya kuhamba kwaye abe kude nentsapho yakhe kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo ngenxa yomsebenzi, kwaye oku kuya kumenza buhlungu.
Ukuthembela kwintonga yomthi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona intonga ye-beech ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba uphonsa yonke into ayiphathisiweyo komnye umntu ukuba ayigqibe, kwaye kufuneka ayitshintshe.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona umntu ogulayo exhomekeke kwintsimbi yentsimbi, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubuya aphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo emva kokugula kwakhe.
- Intonga ejika ibe yinyoka enkulu ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uya kuzoyisa iintshaba zakhe neentshaba zakhe aze azitshabalalise ngokupheleleyo.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ephupheni ethatha intonga kwesinye sezihlobo zakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali eninzi kuloo mntu, ngelifa.
- Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba uqhekeza intonga kumntu, oku kubonisa ukuba ungumntu okhohlisayo kwaye unobuqili kwaye kufuneka atshintshe oko.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona omnye wabahlobo bakhe emnika intonga ende, oku kuthetha ukuba unomdla wokuxhasa kunye nokuncedisa abo bajikelezile, okwenza ukuba azuze uthando lomntu wonke ojikelezayo.
Ukubona intonga ende ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba unentonga ende esandleni sakhe, oku kubonisa isibindi sakhe kunye nengqondo, okwenza ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nayo nayiphi na imiqobo adibana nayo kwindlela eya kumaphupha akhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona intonga ende ilele emhlabeni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ukwimeko embi yengqondo kwaye unqwenela inkxaso kunye noncedo oluvela kwabo bajikelezileyo.
- Imvakalelo yomphuphi yokoyika intonga endala ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uhlala ecinga ngekamva kwaye kufuneka abeke izinto zakhe kuThixo kwaye angakhathazeki.
- Umphuphi obona intonga ende ephuka ufuzisela ukuba uya kujongana nemiqobo kunye neengxaki ezininzi endleleni eya kumaphupha akhe, okuya kumenza alahlekelwe ithemba. Kufuneka aqhubeke ezama ukuze angazisoli kamva.
- Ukhuni olude olukhula kwiphupha lomfazi ongatshatanga lubonisa ukuba uzama ukuphuhlisa izakhono zakhe kunye namava amaninzi.
Ukubona intonga ende ephupheni kumntu
- Indoda engatshatanga ebona ephupheni ukuba ifumana intonga ende kumntu amaziyo ibonisa ukuba iza kutshata intombazana elungileyo kwaye iya kwakha intsapho eyonwabileyo nelungileyo kunye nayo.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona esebenzisa intonga ukuhamba okanye ukuhambahamba ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uzama ukukhululeka kunye nolonwabo ebomini bakhe, kwaye uya kukwazi ukwenza oko.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona enika abanye intonga ende, oku kubonisa inyameko kunye nenkxaso ayifumanayo kwabo basondeleyo kuye, okwenza ukuba abe nethemba ngakumbi.
- Intonga ende yomnye umntu ephupheni ibonisa impembelelo yakhe enamandla kwabo bamngqongileyo.
- Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba uncike intonga eludongeni, oku kuthetha ukuba uceba ukufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu ebomini bakhe kwaye uya kuphumelela ekwenzeni oko.
- Intonga ende ephupheni ibonisa ulwazi olukhulu analo umphuphi kwaye ufuna ukunceda abanye kwaye abanike iingcebiso ezibanceda benze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
- Indoda ejijisana nesilwanyana esingaqhelekanga ngentonga ephupheni ibonisa ukuba ikulungele ngokupheleleyo ukujamelana nayo nayiphi na into embi edibana nayo ize iyicombulule ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukubona intonga ende ekhokela umphuphi kwindlela engaziwayo ephupheni ibonisa ukuba unomdla wokufunda izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye neenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo.
- Ukuba umntu ukhangele umsebenzi kwaye ubona intonga ende ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuphumelela ekufumaneni ukunyuswa okukhulu emsebenzini oya kumzisela umvuzo omkhulu.
