Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nelulwane kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona i-bat enkulu ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uhamba ngexesha elinzima kunye nomyeni wakhe, elisongela ubudlelwane babo ngokuhlukana ukuba abanako ukufikelela kwisisombululo.
- Ukubona umlingane womphuphi emnika i-bat njengesipho ufuzisela amazwi abuhlungu awafumana kuye, ambeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
- Ibhinqa elibona i-bat fangs ephupheni libonisa ukuba unokuziphatha okubi kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze angabi yedwa.
- Umphuphi obona i-bat fangs ubonisa ukuba wenza izenzo ezininzi ezinqatshelwe kwaye kufuneka aziyeke ukuze angafumani isohlwayo esibuhlungu.
- Ilulwane elidala elimhlophe ephupheni libonisa inzuzo kunye nezinto ezintle eziza kuza kumphuphi kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukwesaba ekuboneni i-bat ephupheni kubonisa ukuba imfihlelo enkulu eyayifihla umphuphi iya kutyhilwa, kwaye oku kuya kwenza umfanekiso wakhe ube mbi phakathi kwabantu.
Ukutolikwa kokubona ukuhlaselwa kwelulwane ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ibhinqa elihlaselwe kwaye lilimaza i-bat ephupheni libonisa ukuba iqabane lakhe libambe uxanduva ngokupheleleyo kwaye lingamncedi kuyo nayiphi na into, eyenza azive ediniwe.
- Ukulunywa yilulwane ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukungabi namandla, okumenza angafuni ukwenza nantoni na ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona umyeni wakhe emkhusela ngexesha lokuhlaselwa kwe-bat ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba ufuna uncedo lomyeni wakhe kuzo zonke izinto kwaye uyamthemba kakhulu.
- Ukubona umphuphi ekhala ngelixa ehlaselwa yilulwane kubonisa ukuba uhlangabezana nemeko yosizi kunye nexhala kwaye unqwenela inkxaso kunye noncedo oluvela kwabo bamngqongileyo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha lixoshwa yilulwane, oku kufanekisela ukuba uvusa ingxabano phakathi kwabantu kwaye enze izono ngokuphandle, ngoko kufuneka ayeke ukwenza oko.
- Umphuphi obona ilulwane limsukela emarikeni uvakalisa ukuba uya kuhlala kwimeko yentlupheko kunye nesidingo ngenxa yokuba ugqithise kwaye ukhululekile.
Ilulwane libhabha ephupheni lomfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukubona ilulwane libhabha kwigumbi lentombazana ephupheni lifuzisela ukuba ungcwele kwaye uThixo uya kumvuza ngenxa yoko konke okulungileyo.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ilulwane libhabha endlwini yakhe ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nexesha lobunzima kunye neengxaki, kwaye kufuneka azame ukuphuma kwelo xesha ngaphambi kokuba ubomi bakhe buchaphazeleke.
- Ilulwane elimhlophe ephupheni lomphuphi libonisa ukuba usoloko ehleba yaye ehleba, yaye kufuneka aguquke kuThixo ngaphambi kokuba ashiywe lixesha.
- Ilulwane elimnyama elihlasela ibhinqa ephupheni libonisa imeko yokudabuka kunye nokukhathazeka ahamba kuyo, okwenza ukuba azihlukanise nabanye.
- Ilulwane elihleli ecaleni komphuphi libonisa ukuba uxakeke yimicimbi yehlabathi kunye neminqweno kunye nokutyeshela ukusebenzela ubomi basemva kokufa. Umele asondele ngakumbi kuThixo ngezenzo zokuthobela ngaphambi kokuba ashiywe lixesha.
Ilulwane libhabha ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Umfazi oqhawule umtshato obona ilulwane ephupheni ubonisa ukuba abo basondeleyo kuye babuhlungu ngenxa yezinto adlule kuzo, kodwa bayamvuyisa. Kufuneka azikhwebule kubantu abamngqongileyo ukuze ahlale ngoxolo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona i-bat indiza ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuphuma ekubandezelekeni nasekudinweni aze abuyele kwimisebenzi yakhe yobomi obuqhelekileyo.
- Ukubona umphuphi ebulala ilulwane ngesandla sakhe ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uThixo umsindisile kubantu abayingozi nabahanahanisayo abamngqongileyo, kwaye oku kuye kwamenza wakhululeka ngakumbi.
- Ukuthengisa i-bat ephupheni kufanekisela iintsikelelo kunye nokukhululeka okuya kuhamba naye kubo bonke ubomi bakhe kwaye wenze ubomi bakhe bube lula.
- Ukuba umphuphi ulunywa yilulwane ngaphandle kokuziva iimvakalelo ezimbi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba sele eza kufezekisa into enkulu ebeyinqwenela ixesha elide, eya kumvuyisa.
- Umphuphi odla ilulwane ubonisa imbuyekezo entle aya kuyifumana kungekudala, eya kumenza alibale ubukrakra awayebufumene kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- I-bat ehlasela umfazi ephupheni ibonisa ukuba indoda ekhohlakeleyo izama ukusondela kuye kwaye iqalise ubudlelwane naye, ngoko kufuneka ilumke.
