Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nekhofi ephantsi
- Ukuzibona ulungiselela ikofu ephupheni kufanekisela izibonelelo kunye nezinto ezilungileyo eziza kuza kumphuphi kungekudala.
- Nabani na ozibona ephuza ikofi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kutshata nentombazana enhle eneempawu ezininzi ezintle.
- Indoda etshatileyo ephupha ukuba isela ikofu ibonisa ukuba iya kuba nexesha lokuguquguquka kunye nokungavumelani neqabane lakhe, okuya kudala umsantsa phakathi kwabo. Ngoko ke, umele aqhubane naye ngenyameko.
- Indoda etshatileyo ebona ikomityi yekhofi ephupheni ibonisa amandla akhe okuthatha amanyathelo amaninzi asebenzayo ebomini bakhe, okuya kumnceda ukuba afezekise inkqubela phambili.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ikomityi yekofu iphalala ngokungalindelekanga ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kufumana ukunyuswa okubalulekileyo emsebenzini okuya kumzisela inzuzo eninzi yemali.
Ikhofi ephupheni ziindaba ezilungileyo kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Ibhinqa elisela ikhofi eninzi ephupheni libonisa ukuba uya kudlula ixesha elinzima, kodwa uya kukwazi ukunqoba ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato esela ikofu ephupheni kubonisa ukuchuma kunye nobomi obutofotofo abuphilayo emva kokuhlukana kwakhe, kwaye kumenza azive anelisekile ngesigqibo sakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ngokusela ikofu, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuba nethuba lokuphinda atshate nomnye umntu kwaye uya kuhlala evuya kwaye ekhululekile kunye naye.
- Umphuphi ozibona esenza ikofu ubonisa impumelelo yakhe ekufezekiseni injongo enkulu ebeyilangazelela.
- Ukubona umntu ophuphayo elungiselela umntu angamazi ikofu kubonisa ukuba izinto ezintle ziza kwenzeka kuye kungekudala.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokwenza ikofu kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Umfazi oqhawule umtshato ozibona elungiselela ikofu ephupheni ubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kuma naye aze amkhokele de afezekise amaphupha akhe.
- Ukuba umfazi uphupha ukuba wenza ikofu, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kunqoba iingxaki kunye neengxaki ezazikho phakathi kwakhe nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili, okuya kwenza kube lula kuye ukufumana onke amalungelo akhe.
- Umphuphi owenza ikofu ephupheni ubonisa uthando kunye nothando alufumana kuwo wonke umntu ojikelezileyo ngenxa yentliziyo yakhe enobubele.
- Ukubona umphuphi esenza ikofu kufanekisela ukuba unomdla wokuxhasa abo bamngqongileyo kwaye abanike inkxaso kunye noncedo ngamaxesha anzima.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhonza ikofu kumntu omaziyo kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona esenza ikofu kwaye ekhonza umntu ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba sele eza kuzala kwaye kufuneka alungele oko.
- Iphupha lomfazi malunga neqabane lakhe elimnika ikofu libonisa inkxaso kunye nokhuthazo olufumana kuye, olunciphisa ukubandezeleka kwakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lihambisa ikofu kumntu omaziyo, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuva iindaba ezilungileyo ezininzi kwixesha elizayo, eliya kumenza azive evuya kwaye ekhululekile.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha libona inkwenkwana icela ikofu kuye kwaye imnika, oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumnika umntwana oyinkwenkwe oya kuba mhle kwaye ahlonipheke kuye.
- Ibhinqa elikhulelweyo xa liphupha linika umntu ofileyo ikofu libonisa ukuba liza kuba sengozini enkulu yempilo enokuchaphazela umntwana wakhe ukuba akayithobeli imiyalelo kagqirha.
- Ukuthululela ikhofi kumntu amaziyo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba ungumntu onesisa kwaye onobubele onomdla wokunceda amahlwempu nabasweleyo.
- Ibhinqa eligalela ikofu ngelixa likhonza umntu ephupheni libonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kunandipha ubutyebi obuninzi ngaphandle kokwenza nayiphi na imigudu. Kufuneka ayigcine kwaye ayichithe kuphela kwizinto ezingenamsebenzi ukunqanda ingxaki yemali.
