Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nekhekhe kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Umfazi okhulelweyo uzibona ethenga ikhekhe ephupheni ufuzisela umnqweno wakhe kunye namandla, okumqhubela phambili ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakhe.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ozibona ethatha ikhekhe kumyeni wakhe ephupheni ubonisa inkxaso kunye nenkathalo ayifumanayo kumlingane wakhe ngokwenene.
- Umphuphi ozibona ebenzela ikhekhe abantwana bakhe ubonisa ukuba ubakhathalele kakhulu kwaye uhlala enqwenela ukuba baphumelele kubomi babo bezemfundo.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ezama ukwenza ikhekhe lesiqhamo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba inkqubo yokuyenza iya kuba lula kwaye igudileyo, kwaye iya kuqinisekisa impilo yakhe kunye nokuphila kakuhle.
- Ukutshisa ikhekhe ephupheni kubonisa imiqobo kunye nobunzima apho umphuphi uya kuhamba khona, okuya kumenza azive ediniwe kwaye ebuhlungu.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba wenza ikhekhe kwi-Eid, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubakho kwizihlandlo ezininzi ezonwabileyo kunye nemibhiyozo, eya kuzisa uvuyo entliziyweni yakhe.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutya ikhekhe kubafazi abangatshatanga ngu-Ibn Sirin
- Intombazana ezibona idla ikhekhe ephupheni ibonisa ukunyamalala kweenkxalabo kunye neentlungu kunye noshintsho kwiimeko zakhe zibe ngcono.
- Umphuphi ozibona edla ikhekhe elipinki ubonisa ukukhululeka, ukukhululeka kunye nokuthuthuzela ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lithenga kwaye lidla ikhekhe, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuba neenguqu ezininzi ebomini bakhe kwixesha elizayo, okwenza kube lula kwaye kumnandi.
Umntu ondinika ikeyiki ephupheni yomfazi ongatshatanga
- Umphuphi obona umntu ombi emnika ikhekhe ubonisa ukuba uya kuthotywa kwaye enzekaliswa ngumntu omthembileyo kakhulu, okuya kumenza azive edanile.
- Intombazana ebona ukuba ifumana ikhekhe elikrakra kumyeni wakhe ephupheni ifanekisela ukuba uphila kwimeko yoxinzelelo kwaye oku kwenza ubudlelwane babo bubi.
- Ukubona ibhinqa elingatshatanga lifumana ikhekhe elimuncu kuyise ephupheni lifanekisela imfuno yakhe yokuba umntu eme kuye kwaye amkhokele kwindlela efanelekileyo ukuze angakhubeki kwaye abhekane neengxaki.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lifumana ikhekhe letshokholethi enyibilikisiweyo, oku kufanekisela ukukwazi kwakhe ukoyisa yonke imiqobo kunye neengxaki ezazimthintela ekufezekiseni iinjongo kunye namaphupha akhe.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona unina ephupheni emnika iqebengwana elizaliswe bubusi, oku kubonisa ukuba uyamoyika uThixo yaye uzimisele ukufumana imali yakhe kumthombo osemthethweni.
Umntu undinike ikhekhe ephupheni for indoda
- Ukuba indoda ibona umntu ombi ephupheni emnika ikhekhe elibi kakhulu, oku kubonisa ukuba uphakathi kwabantu abanokuziphatha okubi kwaye kufuneka ahlale kude nabo ngaphambi kokuba achaphazele kakubi ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Indoda ebona umhlobo wakhe emnika ikhekhe elimnandi ephupheni ibonisa izinto ezintle kunye nolonwabo oluya kuba nalo kungekudala kwaye luya kumhlawulela kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Umphuphi obona umhlobo wakhe emnika ikhekhe elimnandi ubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwintsebenziswano enkulu yezoshishino kunye naloo mntu oya kumzisela imali eninzi eya kuba negalelo ekuphuculeni umgangatho wobomi bakhe.
- Ukubona intombazana enhle ikunika ikhekhe ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uya kungena kubudlelwane bothando kunye nentombazana ephethe kakuhle kwaye uhlale naye ngokunethezeka kunye nokuchuma.
- Umphuphi otshatileyo obona iqabane lakhe limnika ikhekhe elichithiweyo libonisa ukuba ubandezeleka kwiingxabano ezininzi phakathi kwakhe kunye neqabane lakhe, kwaye ukuba akafumani zisombululo kubo, umcimbi uya kuphelela ngokuhlukana.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokunika isipho kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba libhaka ikhekhe elincinci kwaye linikezela kumyeni wakhe wangaphambili, oku kubonisa ukuba iqabane lakhe langaphambili lihamba ngexesha elinzima kwaye lidinga ukuba lime kuye kwaye limxhase.
- Umphuphi ozibona ebhaka ikhekhe elikhulu kwaye anike umyeni wakhe wangaphambili ephupheni uvakalisa ukuba sele eza kufezekisa amaphupha akhe kunye neminqweno yakhe, ngoko akufanele aphelelwe ithemba kwaye aqhubeke nendlela yakhe.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato ethengisa ikhekhe elincinci ephupheni ufuzisela ubukrelekrele bakhe kunye nobulumko bakhe, okwamnceda ukuba aphume kwintlungu awayekuyo.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba uthengisa ikhekhe elincinci ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kwixesha elizayo uza kufumana izinto ezininzi ezikhethekileyo, eziya kuphakamisa ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Ukuba umphuphi uthengisa ikhekhe elihonjisiweyo kumntu ongaziwayo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba usebenza nzima emsebenzini wakhe, kwaye ngokukhawuleza oku kuya kukhokelela ekunyusweni okubalulekileyo emsebenzini.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato enika umntu ofileyo ikhekhe elihonjisiweyo ephupheni libonisa intuthumbo ebonakaliswa ngumfi ngenxa yezenzo zakhe kweli hlabathi, kwaye kufuneka amthandazele.
