Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nekhekhe kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukuba ibhinqa elikhulelweyo libona ukuba ufumana ikhekhe eligcwele i-jam ephupheni, oku kuphawu lwempilo kunye nokuphila kakuhle ukuba yena nomntwana wakhe banandipha, kwaye oku kumenza azive ekhululekile.
- Iphupha lomfazi lokunika umntu ikhekhe libonisa ukuba uhlala enomdla wokusasaza i-positivity kunye nolonwabo phakathi kwabantu, kwaye oku kwenza wonke umntu amthande.
- Umphuphi ozibona efumana ikhekhe elonakeleyo kwintsapho yomyeni wakhe uvakalisa ukuba uphila kwiimeko zongquzulwano kunye neengxaki, kwaye kufuneka ajongane nalo mbandela ngobulumko ukuze akwazi ukuyicombulula ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukufumana ikhekhe kubahlobo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi uhlala efumana abahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo kunye nokumnceda, okumenza azive evuya kakhulu.
- Ukuba umphuphi ufumana inani elikhulu lekhekhe kuyise ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubuninzi bokulunga kunye nemali eya kuyifumana kwixesha elizayo, ukumnceda ukuba aphile ubomi obufanelekileyo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nekhekhe letshokolethi kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona edla ikhekhe kunye neqabane lakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubomi obuzinzile nobunokuthula ahlala naye.
- Ibhinqa elitshatileyo elizisa ikhekhe kunye neetshokolethi njengesipho kumyeni wakhe ephupheni libonisa ukuba usebenzisa onke amandla akhe ukuze amkholise kwaye amenze azive evuya.
- Ukulungiselela ikhekhe letshokholethi ephupheni libonisa ukuba umphuphi uphila ngokuchuma kunye nolonwabo ngenxa yokukwazi kwakhe ukufumana umsebenzi ngomvuzo ophezulu.
- Umphuphi ozibona esika ikhekhe letshokolethi ngokulinganayo ephupheni libonisa ukuba iimeko zakhe ziya kutshintsha ukusuka ekubandezelekeni ukuya kuvuyo, oluya kumbeka kwimeko efanelekileyo yengqondo.
- Ukutya isiqwenga sekhekhe ephupheni kubonisa idumela elihle lomphuphi owaziwayo phakathi kwabantu, okwenza wonke umntu amthande kwaye afune ukumazi.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutya ikhekhe kubafazi abangatshatanga ngu-Ibn Sirin
- Ibhinqa elingatshatanga elizibona lidla ikhekhe elimhlophe ephupheni libonisa ukubaleka kwakhe kwingxaki enkulu yemali eyayibangela ukuba aphile kwintlupheko kunye nesidingo.
- Umphuphi ozibona edla ikhekhe elipinki ubonisa imimangaliso eyonwabileyo kunye neyonwabileyo eya kuba nayo kungekudala, eya kuphakamisa ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Ukubona intombazana ithenga ikeyiki kwaye iyitya ephupheni ibonisa ukulunga, indlela yokuphila, kunye neenzuzo eziza kuba yinto yakhe kwixesha elizayo elingekude, imenze abe kwimeko engcono.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokutya ikhekhe kubafazi abangatshatanga
- Ukuba ibhinqa elingatshatanga liphupha ukuba lidla ikhekhe, oku kubonisa ukuba sele eza kuthi ndlela-ntle kwi-singlehood kungekudala.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona edla ikhekhe, oku kufanekisela iintsikelelo ezininzi kunye nezinto ezintle eziya kuba zezakhe kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukutya ikhekhe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi unqwenela ukwakha intsapho kunye nabantwana.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba lidla ikhekhe ngokulula, oku kubonisa ukuba ubandakanyeka kwiingxaki ezininzi, ezimbeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
- Umntu ophuphayo ozibona esenza ikhekhe ukuyidla ubonisa ukuba utshintsho oluninzi luya kwenzeka ebomini bakhe, okwenza kube ngcono.
- Intombazana etya ikeyiki eyonakele ephupheni ibonisa ukuba iya kuba nengxaki yempilo eya kumgcina elele kangangexesha elithile.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba udla ikhekhe ngekhilimu, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kudibaniswa nomntu ophethe kakuhle kunye nobubele, kwaye oku kuya kumenza aphile ubomi bolonwabo nokwaneliseka.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokwenza ikhekhe kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ozibona esenza ikhekhe ephupheni ubonisa ukuba umntwana wakhe uya kuba nempilo kwaye ekhululekile kwizifo kunye nezifo.
- Ukuzibona uthenga ikhekhe ephupheni ufuzisela inzuzo enkulu eya kufunyanwa ngumntu ophuphayo kumntu owaziyo kungekudala.
- Ukubona umphuphi esenza ikhekhe kunye nabantwana bakhe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwintsebenziswano enkulu yoshishino eya kumvuyisa yena nabantwana bakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba wenza ikhekhe lesiqhamo, oku kufanekisela ukukhululeka kunye nokulula apho inkqubo yokuyenza iya kuqhubeka.
- Ukutshisa ikhekhe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi ubandakanyeka kwiingxaki ezininzi kwaye kufuneka aqaphele ekujonganeni nabo ukuze bangaqhubeki.
