Ukutolikwa kweekati ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona iikati endlwini yakhe kwaye akaziva engathandeki kubo ephupheni ubonisa ukuba ufumana imeko yoxinzelelo kunye neengxaki kunye nomyeni wakhe, okwenza ukuba afune ukuhlala kude naye.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona ikati likhangele kuye ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umfazi uyamxelisa kwaye uzama ukuphanga ubomi bakhe, kwaye kufuneka aqaphele kwaye azame ukumgcina kude nobomi bakhe.
- Ukubona iikati zomfazi otshatileyo zigijima emva kwakhe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba ujikelezwe ngabantu abaninzi abakhohlakeleyo nabanomona, kwaye kufuneka ahlale ephaphile ukuze angangeni kwimigibe yabo.
- Ukubona umphuphi esondla iikati ephupheni ufuzisela ukunyamekela kunye nenkxaso enomdla wokubonelela abantwana bakhe ngokwenene.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ukuba libona ikati elibi kwaye alifuni ukuyijonga, oku kufanekisela inhlanhla kunye nentlekele eya kuhamba naye kwaye ibangele ukuba ahlupheke kakhulu.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona lilunywa ngamakati ephupheni, oku kufanekisela umntu ojikelezayo ozama ukutshabalalisa uxolo ahlala kulo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo xa ebona isandla sakhe sopha ngenxa yokulunywa yikati ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uyayityeshela imisebenzi yakhe eNkosini yakhe nakwintsapho yakhe, yaye umele akhawuleze aguquke ukuze angohlwaywa kabuhlungu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubona iikati kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Umfazi oqhawule umtshato obona iikati ephupheni lakhe ufuzisela imali kunye nobuninzi bemali eya kuyonwabela kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba umfazi ubona iikati zingena endlwini yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana impumelelo kunye nokunyamekela kukaThixo ebomini bakhe, okuya kumkhusela kwingozi.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba ukhulisa iikati ezininzi, oku kufanekisela ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuzala izinto ezininzi ezimangalisayo kuye.
- Ikati ehlasela umphuphi ephupheni ivakalisa ubunzima kunye neengxaki ahamba nazo, ezithintela ukuba ahlale ngoxolo kunye nentuthuzelo.
Ukutolikwa kokubona ikati iluma ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ikati ephuphayo ephupheni, oku kufanekisela umhlobo osondeleyo onenjongo yokulimaza kunye nobubi kuye, kwaye kufuneka ahlale kude naye.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ikati ibetha umyeni wakhe ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uye waphumelela ekusondeleni kuThixo kunye nokuphepha izenzo ezingavumelekanga.
- Ikati eluma unyawo lomfazi otshatileyo ibonisa ubomi obuguquguqukayo aphila kubo nomyeni wakhe, nto leyo ebangela umsantsa omkhulu phakathi kwabo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ophupha ukuba ulunywa yikati ubonisa ukuba uziva enesizungu kwaye unqwenela ukufumana umntu oza kubelana naye ngamaxesha obomi bakhe.
- Ukopha komphuphi ngenxa yokulunywa kwekati kufanekisela ukuba iintshaba zakhe ziya kumenzakalisa kwaye zitshabalalise uxolo ahlala kulo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona liluma ikati ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uneenjongo ezimbi kwabo bajikelezile, kwaye kufuneka azame ukutshintsha ukuba ubomi bakhe bungonakaliswa.
- Ikati eluma umfazi ephupheni ibonisa ukuba wenza izinto ezichasene nenkolo kunye neSharia, kwaye kufuneka ayeke ukuzenza ukuze angabi yingozi enkulu.
Ukutolikwa kweekati ephupheni kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Umfazi oqhawule umtshato ozibona esondla iqela lamakati amancinci, anemibala kwaye athande ephupheni, oku kubonisa uvuyo kunye nezihlandlo ezonwabileyo eziza kuba nazo kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona ama-kittens ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kufumana izinto ezininzi ezintle eziza kumenza alibale ubomi obunzima awayephila ngaphambili kunye nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili.
- Umphuphi obona amantshontsho ekati edlala kwaye ezonwabisa ephupheni uvakalisa ukuzimisela kunye namabhongo anawo amqhubela ekufezekiseni ngokulula oko akufunayo.
- Ukuba umbonisi uzibona efuna amakati ukuze azondle ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba ufuna umntu ofanelekileyo onokukha naye intsapho eyonwabileyo.
- Iikati ezimhlophe ephupheni lomfazi zibonisa ukuhlonela kunye nobunyulu, okwenza ukuba azuze uthando lomntu wonke ojikelezayo.
- Umfazi oqhawule umtshato owesaba iikati kwaye ubona enye ephupheni lakhe ufuzisela umntu ozama ukungena kubudlelwane naye, kodwa uyesaba ukuba uya kuluqhawula.
Ukubona iikati ezinemibala ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Umfazi okhulelweyo obona iikati ezinemibala ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba ukuhanjiswa kwakhe kuya kuba lula kwaye kube lula, kwaye akayi kujongana naluphi na ukukhathala okanye ubunzima.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba unika ubisi kwiikati, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kufumana ukutya okuninzi kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuba umntu ophuphayo ubona iikati ezinemibala, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana isikhundla esiphezulu emsebenzini ngokuxabisa imizamo yakhe kunye nokusebenza nzima.
- Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha libona iikati ezimibalabala zithe saa ejikeleze indlu yakhe, oku kubonisa ukuhlonela kwakhe, ukusondela kuThixo, kunye nokuthanda kwakhe ukwenza izinto ezilungileyo kunye nokunikela uthando ngenxa yokoyika uThixo nethemba leParadesi.
