Ukutolikwa kombono womhambi
- Nabani na obona uhambo ephupheni, olu luphawu lokuba uya kuhamba ukuya kusebenza kwelinye ilizwe kungekudala, okuya kuphucula umgangatho wobomi bakhe.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ehamba ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba sele eza kufika kwindawo asiya kuyo kungekudala, nto leyo eya kumvulela imida emitsha necacileyo.
- Ukubona umntu ehamba ephupheni kubonisa ukuba ungumntu ophumelele kwintlalontle kwaye uthandwa ngumntu wonke ojikelezayo.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ehamba kwindawo angafuni ukuya kuyo, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuboniswa kwisiganeko esiphuthumayo kwixesha elizayo eliya kuguqula ubomi bakhe.
Ukubona izalamane ezihambayo ephupheni, ngokutsho kukaIbn Shaheen
- Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba uhlanganisana nezalamane zakhe ezihambahambayo ekhaya, oku kubonisa ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuzaliswa ngobuhle kunye neentsikelelo ezininzi.
- Ukuba umphuphi uzibona ekhala phambi kwezihlobo ezihambahambayo, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubonakaliswa kwisiganeko esibi kwixesha elizayo, eliya kumenza azive edangele.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba izihlobo zakhe ezihambahambayo zenza isiko likaHadd, oku kubonisa intliziyo yakhe enhle kunye nobulungisa, okwenza wonke umntu amthande kwaye amxabise.
- Ukubuya kwezihlobo ukusuka kuhambo ephupheni kubonisa imiqobo kunye neengxaki apho umphuphi uya kuhamba khona, amshiye ephazamisekile kwaye ediniwe.
- Ukuba umfazi ubona izalamane zakhe ephupheni zidla iilekese, oku kufanekisela ukuba uya kutshata kungekudala.
Ukutolikwa kombono katata okanye umama ehamba
- Ukubona uyise nonina behamba ephupheni kubonisa ukukhululeka kunye nempumelelo eya kuhamba nomntu kwiminyaka ezayo.
- Nabani na obona uyise ehamba ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuphucula imeko yezemali kayise, okuya kumenza aphile ngokunethezeka kunye nokuchuma.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba umzalwana wakhe akakho ngenxa yokuhamba, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubuya ekuhambeni kwakhe ngokukhawuleza.
- Nabani na obonayo ukuba uhamba noyise okanye unina ephupheni, lo ngumqondiso wokuba ungxamele ukubathabatha ahambe nabo, abaphathe ngobubele ukuze akholise uThixo uSomandla.
Ukubona izalamane ezihambayo ephupheni lomfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona izalamane zakhe ezihambahambayo zibuya kuhambo olumomothekayo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana izinto ezininzi ezivuyisayo kwixesha elizayo elingekude, eliya kumphakamisa.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba umntu othandekayo entliziyweni yakhe uhamba, oku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufumana iziganeko ezonwabileyo.
- Ukubona izalamane zilungiselela ukuhamba ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi uya kufumana amathuba amaninzi akhethekileyo aya kumnceda aphucule umgangatho wobomi bakhe.
- Ukutyelela izalamane ezijikelezayo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umphuphi kufuneka athathe ixesha lokulungelelanisa ubomi bakhe kwaye acwangcise oko azimisele ukukwenza kwiminyaka ezayo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomhambi obuyayo kwaye wamkelwa kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi ebona umyeni wakhe ebuya kuhambo yaye eza kumamkela ephupheni kwisikhululo seenqwelo-moya, oku kubonisa ukuba sele eza kufumana into ebeyithandazela kakhulu kuThixo kwixesha elidluleyo.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba uyamanga iqabane lakhe elibuyile kuhambo, oku kuthetha ukuba uziva emlangazelela kakhulu kwaye unethemba lokuba uya kubuya kuhambo lwakhe kungekudala.
- Ukufumana unyana obuya kuhambo kwisikhululo seenqwelo-moya kwaye ewa xa embona ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuba akabathembi abo bajikelezileyo kuba uhlala evezwe ukukhohlisa nokuphoxeka.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona efumana umzala wakhe kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya kwaye unomsindo kakhulu ephupheni ubonisa ubudlelwane bakhe obubi kunye nabo bakufutshane naye, okumenza azive enesizungu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomhambi obuyela ekhaya kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona umyeni wakhe ohambahambayo ebuyela ekhaya ephupheni, oku kuyimpawu yolonwabo noxolo ahlala kulo, olumbeka kwisimo esihle sengqondo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona umyeni wakhe ohambahambayo ebuyela ekhaya waza wafumanisa ukuba utshatile omnye umfazi ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uyamkhohlisa kwaye uya kufumanisa ngayo, kwaye oku kuya kuchaphazela ubudlelwane babo.
- Umphuphi obona umyeni wakhe ohambahambayo ebuyela ekhaya engenanto ubonisa ukuba iqabane lakhe lijongene nobunzima bemali kwaye kufuneka lime kuye kwaye limxhase.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba uyamgxotha umyeni wakhe emva kokubuya kohambo, oku kubonisa ukuba kufuneka aphucule izenzo zakhe kwaye agweme iindlela zokukhohlisa azilandelayo, ukuze angazisoli.
- Umphuphi oqalekisa umyeni wakhe ngaphambi kokungena endlwini kwaye emva kokuba ebuya eluhambeni ephupheni ubonisa ukuba uyamthiya kwaye wenqaba ukujongana naye ngenxa yokungabikho kokuqonda phakathi kwabo.
