Ukutolikwa kokubona i-junk ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona ukuba iqokelela inkunkuma ize iyibeke emgqomeni ephupheni, oku kuluphawu lwamandla nesibindi esimbonakalisayo nesenza ukuba ikwazi ukoyisa zonke iziganeko ezimbi eyayihamba kuzo.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona inkunkuma ifumba phambi kwendlu yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa iingxaki kunye neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ezihlangabezana nazo ezimenza angakwazi ukujamelana neemeko zakhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ukuba izandla zakhe zingcolile ngenxa yemfucumfucu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba iimeko zakhe ziya kutshintsha zibe zibi kakhulu, eziza kumenza ahlupheke.
- Ukutshayela udoti kunye nokucoca indlu ephupheni lentombazana kubonisa iintsikelelo kunye nezinto ezintle eziza kuba yinto yakhe kungekudala.
- Ukubona intombazana ikhupha inkunkuma endlwini ephupheni ibonisa ukunyamalala kwentlungu yakhe kunye nokukhathazeka, okuphucula imeko yakhe yengqondo.
- Iphupha lentombazana likhupha udoti endlwini libonisa ukuphuculwa kobudlelwane bakhe kunye neqabane lakhe, okwenza basondele ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili.
Ukutolikwa kokubona inkunkuma ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona ubuninzi benkunkuma ephupheni, oku kubonisa iingxaki kunye nenhlanhla elawula imeko yakhe.
- Xa intombazana izibona ihleli kwindawo ezele yinkunkuma ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ingumntu omoshayo ongayixabisiyo ixabiso lemali.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona indlu yakhe igcwele inkunkuma eninzi ephupheni ibonisa ukuba woyiswa lusizi nonxunguphalo ngenxa yokufumana iindaba ezimbi ngomntu amkhathalele kakhulu.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo ukuba uhlambulula indlu yakhe ngothuli, inkunkuma kunye nokungcola kubonisa ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuba lizele izinto ezininzi ezimangalisayo eziya kutshintsha ubomi bakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ephupheni ukuba uhlambulula indlu yakhe kumdaka kunye nenkunkuma, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana ithuba elihle lomsebenzi oya kuba negalelo ekuphakamiseni umgangatho wakhe wokuphila kunye nokuphila ngokunethezeka kunye nokuthuthuzela.
- Ukuphupha ukucoca indlu yokungcola kunye nenkunkuma kubonisa iintsikelelo kunye nobomi obude obuya kuhamba naye kubo bonke ubomi bakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokubona ukulahla inkunkuma ephupheni
- Ukubona umntu ephosa inkunkuma ephupheni kufanekisela ukunyamalala kweenkxalabo zakhe kunye nosizi, okuphucula imeko yakhe yengqondo.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona ephupheni ephonsa inkunkuma yendlu endlwini, oku bubungqina bokuba uzama ukulungisa ubudlelwane bakhe kunye nabo basondeleyo kwaye basondele kubo.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona elahla ingxowa yenkunkuma ephupheni, oku kubonisa imiqobo nemiqobo atyhubela kuyo eyonakalisa uxolo lwakhe lobomi.
- Ukubukela abamelwane bephosa inkunkuma ephupheni kubonisa ukulunga kwabo kunye nokuphuculwa kobudlelwane kunye nabo emva kwexesha leengxabano kunye neengxaki.
- Ukuphupha umntu elahla inkunkuma kubonisa ubulungisa nokuhlonela okuphawulwa ngumphuphi nokususa iinkxwaleko neenkathazo ezininzi kuye.
- Nabani na obona umntu ongaziwayo elahla inkunkuma yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa amandla akhe okulawula iingcamango ezimnyama ezimkhathazayo kwaye zimenza angakwazi ukuhlala ngoxolo.
Intsingiselo yephunga lenkunkuma ephupheni
- Nabani na obonayo ukuba uva ivumba elibi lenkunkuma ephupheni, olu luphawu lomlingiswa wakhe ombi kunye nokusebenzelana nabantu, okwenza wonke umntu amthiye ukujongana naye.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba uphunga udoti ephupheni, oku bubungqina beendaba ezingathandekiyo eziza kuva kungekudala kwaye ziya kuchaphazela isimo sakhe sengqondo.
- Iphunga lenkunkuma ephuma endlwini ephupheni libonisa ukuba umcimbi wakhe uya kutshatyalaliswa phakathi kwabantu, okuya kwenza umfanekiso wakhe phakathi kwabo ube mbi.
- Ukuphupha ivumba lenkunkuma ephuma emzimbeni kubonisa iindlela ezigoso nezono azenzayo umphuphi ezimenza abe kude neNkosi yakhe.
- Ukubona iphunga elimnandi lenkunkuma ephupheni libonisa ukuba uya kudlula kwixesha elinzima, kodwa liya kumvulela iindlela ezininzi ezahlukileyo.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba iphunga lenkunkuma lihle ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuba ligcwele iziganeko ezininzi kwaye kufuneka alungiselele oko.
- Ukuphunga inkunkuma kumntu owaziwayo ephupheni kubonisa uluvo olubi olumlawulayo kwaye lumenza ahlale ecinga kakubi.
- Ukubona ivumba lenkunkuma kwindawo lifuzisela ukuba umphuphi kufuneka aphinde acinge ngezenzo zakhe aze abuyele eNkosini yakhe ngaphambi kokuba kuphele.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokucoca isitalato kwinkunkuma kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uchaphazelekayo sisifo esiza kumenza alale ixesha elide, ngelixa ukucoca inkunkuma kubonisa ukuba umzimba wakhe ukhululekile ekuguleni nasekuguleni kwaye uya kubuya aphile ngokuqhelekileyo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ehlambulula isitrato kwinkunkuma ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ulwa naye kunye noMtyholi kwaye uzama ukuhlala kude nezinto ezinqatshelwe kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lokuba ephethe iingxowa zenkunkuma kodwa afumane umngxuma kuzo libonisa ukuba uloyisile imeko yosizi nenkxwaleko awayekuyo, nto leyo eye yamvulela iindlela ezininzi ezintsha.
- Ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona litshisa inkunkuma ephupheni libonisa ukuba akayihoyi into ethethwayo ngaye kwaye ayimchaphazeli ngenxa yokuzithemba okukhulu nokuzingca kwakhe.
- Ukubona isikhwama senkunkuma ephupheni lomfazi ongafundileyo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uyayinyamekela impilo yakhe kwaye akayi kundwendwela ugqirha ukuba alandele impilo yakhe, kwaye ukuba akatshintshi oko, uya kuzisola.
