Ukutolikwa kokubona amafu ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
- Ukubona intombazana ephupheni ukuba isibhakabhaka sigcwele amafu kwaye uziva uloyiko lufanekisela ukuxhalaba kunye noloyiko olulawula intliziyo yakhe kwaye lumenze angakwazi ukuthatha nayiphi na inyathelo ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona amafu abomvu okanye aphuzi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ukwesaba ukusilela ukufezekisa amaphupha akhe Akufanele akhathazeke, kodwa kufuneka abeke umcimbi wakhe kuThixo kwaye azame.
- Xa intombazana izibona ikhwele ifu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umfana olilungisa uya kumcebisa kwaye uya kuhlala naye ngoxolo nempumelelo.
- Iphupha lentombazana yokubamba amafu amnyama libonisa iingxaki kunye neenkxalabo ezilawula ubomi bakhe kwaye ziphazamise.
- Ukuba amafu acacile kwaye intombazana yaphumelela ekubambeni ephupheni, oku kubonisa iintsikelelo kunye nobuninzi bokulunga okuza kuba kuye kungekudala.
- Ukuphupha ngamafu acocekileyo kwaye uwabambele intombazana engatshatanga kubonisa isibindi nokuzimisela anako okwamncedayo ukuba afezekise iinjongo zakhe.
Ukubona amafu amnyama kunye namafu amhlophe ephupheni
- Ukubona amafu amnyama ephupheni kufanekisela ingozi kunye nokulimala okunzulu ukuba umphuphi uya kubonakaliswa kwixesha elizayo, amthintele ukuba aphile ubomi bakhe.
- Ukuba umntu ubona amafu amnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba iingcamango ezimnyama ziyamlawula, zimenza angafuni ukwenza nantoni na.
- Ukuphupha ngamafu amnyama kubonisa ukuba umphuphi uya kujongana neziganeko ezininzi ezingathandekiyo kwixesha elizayo kwaye kufuneka aqaphele.
- Amafu abomvu ephupheni abonisa ukuba umntu ophuphayo uya kuba nengxaki enkulu yezempilo eya kumthintela ukuba aphume ebhedini ixesha elithile.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ilifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa amaxesha aguquguqukayo aya kuhlala kuwo, okuya kumenza angakwazi ukugxila ebomini bakhe.
- Nabani na obona ifu elimhlophe ephupheni, oku kuphawu lokuchuma kweshishini lakhe kunye nokusabalalisa phakathi kwabantu, okuya kumzisa inzuzo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokuhamba emafini kumfazi otshatileyo ephupheni
- Ukuzibona uwela kwilifu ngaphandle kokuwa ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uya kufumana isikhundla esiphezulu kwixesha elizayo eliya kukuzisela inzuzo eninzi.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ehamba emafini ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba omnye wabantwana bakhe uya kufumana impumelelo enkulu kwixesha elizayo, eliya kuphakamisa ukuma kwakhe kuluntu.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lokwakha indlu emafini libonisa utshintsho olonwabileyo kwiimeko zakhe zemali kunye nempilo eya kumvuyisa.
- Ukubona omnye wabantwana bakhe esiwa kwilifu ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuba uya kuhlaselwa sisifo esiya kumenza angakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla ngokuqhelekileyo.
Ukubona amafu amhlophe kufuphi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona amafu amhlophe kunye nemvula ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubuninzi kunye neentsikelelo ezininzi eziza kuba kuye kungekudala.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ezibona ethandaza xa kunetha imvula kukho amafu amhlophe ephupheni, loo nto ithetha ukuba uThixo uya kumnika into ekudala eyinqwenela.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ophuphayo ethandaza kwaye ejonga amafu amhlophe kubonisa uxolo kunye nokuzola ahlala kuyo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo lizibona lijonge amafu ngokugqithiseleyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubuqili kunye nobuqili bakhe, okumnceda ukuba ajamelane nento ahamba ngayo ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona ejonge amafu amhlophe ephupheni ubonisa ukuhlonela kwakhe kunye nokoyika uThixo, okukhokelela ekubeni enze izenzo ezininzi zobubele.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga namafu amnyama phezu kwendlu yomfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuze umfazi otshatileyo abone amafu amnyama phezu kwendlu yakhe ephupheni afanekisela ukuba kufuneka aqinise ikhaya lakhe aze acele uThixo ukuba amkhusele kwiliso elibi kunye nomona.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lwamafu amnyama phezu kwendlu yakhe libonisa ukuba uya kubandakanyeka kwingxaki enkulu engayi kukwazi ukuyinqoba ngokulula.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona amafu amnyama phezu kwekhaya lentsapho yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kukho into embi eya kwenzeka ekhayeni lakhe, echaphazela ukuzinza nokuzola kwayo, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ukuba abandezeleke.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona amafu amnyama ejikeleze indlu yakhe kumacala omabini ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba intsapho yakhe idinga inkxaso kunye noncedo lwakhe, kwaye kufuneka eme kunye nabo kwaye abaxhase.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona amafu amnyama asondela ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umntu uyamthanda kwaye uyayixabisa kakhulu, kodwa uzama ukumenzakalisa, kwaye kufuneka ahlale kude naye ukuze aphephe ububi bakhe.
- Emva kokuba amafu amnyama egubungele indlu emva kokuba umfazi otshatileyo eyishiya ephupheni, kubonisa ukuba kufuneka ahlolisise izenzo zakhe kuba intsapho yakhe kunye nabo basondeleyo kuye bamchaphazela kakubi.
- Ukuphupha ngamafu amnyama awela phezu kwendlu yakho kwaye abangele umonakalo omkhulu kubonisa ukuba ilungu lentsapho yakho liya kuba nengxaki enkulu yempilo eya kubakhathaza ixesha elide.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona amafu ewela endlwini yakhe ngaphandle kokwenza umonakalo ephupheni, oku kubonisa izinto ezintle kunye nolonwabo oluya kulunandipha kwiintsuku ezizayo.
- Amafu awela kwindlu yomfazi otshatileyo ngaphandle kokubangela umonakalo ephupheni abonisa iindaba ezilungileyo eziza kuva kungekudala.
