Ukuchitha ikofu ephupheni
- Xa intombazana ibona ukuchithwa kwekhofi ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lokuba umfana ofanelekileyo uya kumcebisa, kwaye oku kuya kumenza ajabule kwaye aneliseke.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ikhofi ichitheka ngelixa isela ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kunqoba zonke iingxaki ezijongene nazo, eziza kumbeka kwimeko engcono yengqondo.
- Ukubona ikofu ichitheka emhlabeni ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba umphuphi uya kubandezeleka ngenxa yezinto ezinzima emsebenzini wakhe, kwaye oku kunokumshukumisela ukuba ashiye umsebenzi wakhe.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba unika ikhofi kumntu ongaziwayo ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lwexesha elibi kunye noxinzelelo oluhambayo, okwenza ukuba ahambe kwimeko embi yengqondo.
- Ukuzibona ugalela ikhofi kwindawo yokuhlambela ephupheni uvakalisa umhlobo osondeleyo othi uyamthanda, kodwa ungumqambimanga kwaye uzama ukumkhohlisa nokumxhaphaza.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nekomityi yekhofi yesiArabhu ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo esela ikomityi yekofu yesiArabhu ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uya kuba nolonwabo olukhulu kunye nolonwabo kwixesha elizayo.
- Xa umfazi okhulelweyo ebona ikomityi yekhofi yesi-Arabhu ewa kwaye ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uloyiko luye lwambamba kwaye luyamchaphazela, lumenza akhathazeke.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ikhofi yesi-Arabhu kwaye uyithululela kwiikomityi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba sele eza kuzala kwaye kufuneka alungiselele oko kwaye alungiselele oko akufunayo.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona indebe yekhofi yaseArabhu engenanto ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uyamxabisa kwaye ufuna ukuphendula kuzo zonke iimfuno zakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lizibona liphethe indebe yekhofi emnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba abo bajikelezayo baceba ukumlimaza, kwaye kufuneka aqaphele.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokucela ukwenza ikofu ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba ucela ikhofi ukuba yenziwe ngaphandle ephupheni, oku bubungqina benzuzo eninzi eya kuba yisabelo sakhe ngokukhawuleza kwiprojekthi yorhwebo.
- Ukubona umfazi emcela ukuba enze ikofu ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uhlala emxhasa kwaye uyamnceda ngayo yonke into ayifunayo.
- Ukubona umfazi owaziwayo emi ecaleni komyeni wakhe aze amcele ikofu ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuba lo mfazi uzenza ngathi uneempawu ezithile angenazo ukuze abe umyeni wakhe kuye, kwaye kufuneka aqaphele.
- Ukucela ukwenza ikofu kunye nentombazana encinci kwiphupha lomfazi okhulelweyo ubonisa ukukhululeka kokuzalwa kwakhe kunye nokufezekiswa komntwana wakhe kwindawo ephakamileyo kwixesha elizayo.
Ikhofi ephupheni ziindaba ezilungileyo kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ukuba usela ikofi ephupheni, oku kuphawu lobudlelwane obuhle obumsondeza kunye nomntu amthandayo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona iqabane lakhe limnika ikomityi yekofu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kukhulelwa, uThixo ethanda.
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona ikofu ephupheni ubonisa ubunewunewu kunye nentuthuzelo ahlala kuyo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa lijongene neengxaki kwaye libona ikhofi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba imeko yakhe iya kuphucula emva kokuba ifumene izisombululo eziphucula iimeko zakhe zokuhlala.
- Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo esela ikofu nomntu ongamaziyo ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba usebenza kwikhaya lakhe kunye nomyeni wakhe kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze ikhaya lakhe libhujiswe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona elungiselela ikofu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubukrelekrele bakhe kunye nobuqili bakhe, okwenza ukuba ajongane nemicimbi ahamba ngayo ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokukhonza ikofu kumntu owaziyo umfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona umyeni wakhe wangaphambili emnika ikofu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuphuculwa kobudlelwane babo emva kokulungisa ukungafani kwabo, okuvula ithuba lokuba babuyele.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona ukuba ucela ikofu kwaye ayinike umntu owaziwayo, kodwa ichitheka ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba akakayilibala indoda yakhe yangaphambili kwaye usabambelele kwiinkumbulo, kwaye kufuneka abe namandla ngakumbi ukuze akwazi ukunyamezela oko akwenzayo.
- Ukubukela umfazi oqhawule umtshato enikwa ikofu yindoda eyaziwayo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kuphinda atshate kwaye uya kuba yindoda elungileyo eya kumbuyekeza ngenxa yobuhlungu abufumeneyo.
- Ukubona umfazi ethululela ikhofi kumfazi oqhawule umtshato emva kokumnika ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba lo mfazi isizathu sokutshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakhe nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili kunye nokonakalisa ubomi bakhe.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato enika ikhofi kumntwana owaziwayo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kuba nentsapho eyonwabileyo kunye nendoda elungileyo emthandayo kwaye uya kuba nabantwana abaninzi kuye.
Ukutolikwa kokuthenga ikofu ephupheni ngu-Ibn Sirin kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona ukuba uthenga ikofu ngemali yakhe ephupheni, oku bubungqina besikhundla esiphezulu esiza kunyuka ngokukhawuleza, apho uya kufumana imali eninzi.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umyeni wakhe wangaphambili emthengela ikofu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uziva ezisola kwaye ebandezelekile ngenxa yokulahlekelwa kwakhe kwaye ufuna ukumbuyisela kuye kwaye uzame kwakhona.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato ethenga ikofu entlango ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba ukhawuleza kwaye uthatha amanyathelo amaninzi ngaphandle kokucinga kwangaphambili, kwaye kufuneka atshintshe oko okanye uya kungena enkingeni.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona ukuba uthengela ikhofi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo entliziyweni yakhe, eya kumbeka kwimeko embi yengqondo.
