Ukutolikwa kokubona abafileyo kunika umfazi wakhe imali yephepha
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona umyeni wakhe ofileyo emnika imali yephepha ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uhamba ngexesha elinzima lemali kwaye ufuna imali.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona umyeni wakhe ofileyo emnika imali yephepha ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuba ligcwele ukulunga kunye nokuziphilisa kuye.
- Ukubona indoda efileyo yomfazi emnika imali yephepha ephupheni ifuzisela iindaba ezilungileyo aza kuziva kungekudala eziya kuvuyisa intliziyo yakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi ubona umyeni wakhe ofileyo emnika imali yephepha ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumbuyekeza ngobunzima awabufumana emva kokufa komyeni wakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona umyeni wakhe ofileyo ephupheni emnika imali yephepha kwindawo yakhe yokusebenza, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana ukunyuswa okubalulekileyo emsebenzini ngenxa yenkuthalo yakhe kunye nokusebenza kanzima.
- Ukuba umfazi ubona umyeni wakhe ofileyo emnika imali yephepha kwaye uyakhala ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unomdla kunye nokulangazelela okukhulu kuye kwaye unqwenela ukuba uya kubuya kwakhona.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ofileyo ondinika imali yomfazi ongatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona umntu ofileyo emnika imali ephupheni, oku bubungqina beentsikelelo ezininzi kunye nokulunga okuza kuba kuye kungekudala.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona umntu ofileyo emnika imali ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufezekisa izinto ezininzi ezinqwenela ixesha elide, eziza kumenza aziqhenye kwaye azithembe.
- Ukubona umntu ofileyo enika intombazana imali yephepha ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba uya kufumana ithuba elihle lomsebenzi oya kutshintsha ubomi bakhe bube ngcono.
- Ukubona intombazana efileyo imnika imali yephepha ephupheni ibonisa ukuba yenza umgudu omkhulu ukuze ikwazi ukufumana imali esemthethweni ngenxa yokoyika uThixo, yaye uThixo uya kuyivuza ngako konke okulungileyo.
- Ukubona umntu ofileyo enika intombazana imali yephepha ephupheni kubonisa ukuba ubandakanyeka kwiingxaki ezithile kunye neengxaki eziza kumthintela ekufezekiseni amaphupha akhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona isihlobo sakhe esifileyo simcela ukuba amnike imali kwaye akayamkeli ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba akanelisekanga ngobomi bakhe kwaye ufuna ukuyitshintsha ibe ngcono.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomntu ofileyo onika izipho ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ukuba uyise ofileyo umnika izipho ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba intlungu kunye nokukhathazeka kuya kunyamalala, kumenze abe ngcono.
- Xa intombazana ibona uyise ofileyo emnika izipho ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufezekisa yonke into ayifunayo kwaye ayiphuphayo ixesha elide.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona umntakwabo ofileyo ephupheni enikela izipho kumahlwempu nabasweleyo, oku kubonisa ukuba umzalwana wakhe uya kufumana iparadesi kunye nenqanaba eliphezulu emva kokufa ngenxa yezenzo zakhe ezilungileyo kweli hlabathi.
- Ukubona intombazana efileyo inika abahlwempuzekileyo nabasweleyo ephupheni ifanekisela imfuneko yakhe yokuphucula imisebenzi yakhe kwaye isondele kuThixo ngaphambi kokuba kuphele.
- Ukubona intombazana efileyo engaziyo ukunika izipho ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uya kuva iindaba ezilungileyo ezininzi malunga nabantu abathandayo kwixesha elizayo.
- Intombazana efumana izipho kumntu oshonile ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali eninzi kunye nokutya kungekudala, okuya kumenza afikelele kwisikhundla esiphezulu kuluntu.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga notata wam ongasekhoyo ondinika iingqekembe ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ephupheni ukuba uyise umnika imali ethile kwindlu yakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana imali eninzi kwixesha elizayo eliya kumnceda ukuba anqobe ixesha elinzima lemali ahamba nalo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona unyana wakhe egona uyise emnika imali ephupheni kubonisa ukuba akayihoyi indoda nabantwana bakhe, kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze angazisoli kamva.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona uyise endlwini yakhe ephupheni enika umyeni wakhe iingqekembe zemali ezindala, oku kubonisa indlela akhuliswe ngayo kakuhle awayifumanayo eyenza ukuba wonke umntu amthande kwaye amxabise.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba uyise usegumbini lakhe kwaye emnika izipho ezininzi ngaphezu kwemali, oku kufanekisela ukuba uyise wamshiyela into ethile kwigumbi lakhe kwaye kufuneka ayifune de ayifumane.
- Utata womfazi otshatileyo ovela kwisikolo sabantwana bakhe ephupheni lakhe ubonisa ukuba abantwana bakhe baya kugqwesa koontanga, nto leyo eya kubavulela amathuba amaninzi awodwa.
- Umfazi otshatileyo xa ezibona esala ukuthatha imali kuyise ongasekhoyo ephupheni ubonisa ukuba ukwixesha elizele yinkxwaleko nosizi kwaye kufuneka asondele kuThixo ukuze amkhulule.
