Impumelelo kuvavanyo ephupheni
- Ukubona impumelelo kwiimviwo ephupheni kufanekisela impumelelo emangalisayo ukuba umphuphi uya kufezekisa ngokukhawuleza ebomini bakhe.
- Nabani na obona ukuba uphumelele uviwo lwe-bachelor's ephupheni, olu luphawu lwenqanaba elikhethekileyo eliya kuthi lifike ngokukhawuleza emva kweminyaka yokuzama nokuqhubeka nephupha.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba wangena kwiimviwo waza wafumana awona manqaku aphezulu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuphumeza iphupha elikhulu awayecinga ukuba alinakwenzeka.
- Ukuzibona uphumelele iimvavanyo kunye namabanga aphezulu ephupheni kubonisa iindaba ezimnandi ukuba uya kuva kungekudala yaye oko kuya kuzisa uvuyo entliziyweni yakhe.
- Ukuba umfundi uzibona ephupheni efumana isatifikethi saseyunivesithi, oku kubonisa ukuba unethemba lokugqiba izifundo zakhe aze aphumelele kungekudala.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba uyaphumelela yaye uthweswe isithsaba ephupheni, oku kububungqina bokuba ungqongwe ngabantu abaninzi abalungileyo abamthanda ngokunyanisekileyo nabafuna ukumxhasa ngamaxesha okubandezeleka.
- Ukuba umphuphi ubona ukuba uthatha uvavanyo kwaye uphumelele ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uyazi ngobume balabo abamngqongileyo kwaye uyazi indlela yokujongana nomntu ngamnye.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nempumelelo kwiimviwo zomfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ukuba uphumelele iimvavanyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukukwazi kwakhe ukulungelelanisa iimfuno zobomi bakhe ngaphandle kokuchaphazela ubomi bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba uphumelele uvavanyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubomi obukhethekileyo ahlala kunye neqabane lakhe, eligcwele uthando kunye nolonwabo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ukuba uphumelele iimviwo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba abantwana bakhe baya kufumana amabanga aphezulu kwizifundo zabo, oko kumenza azive anelisekile kwaye onwabile.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba uphumelele iimviwo, oku kufanekisela ukuba kungekudala uThixo uya kumnika inzala yakhe elungileyo nengcwele, ukuba akazange abe nabantwana.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ukuba uyaphumelela kuvavanyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kuhlahl’ indlela yokuba afikelele iphupha elikhulu ekudala elinqwenela.
- Ukubona umfazi otshatileyo ephumelela kwiimviwo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uziva anelisekile kwaye ekhululekile ebomini bakhe kwaye unqwenela ukuhlala ngolu hlobo rhoqo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nempumelelo kwisatifikethi sesikolo esiphakathi kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona umyeni wakhe emnika isatifikethi sesikolo esiphakathi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba iqabane lakhe litshintshile ikhondo lobomi bakhe kwaye lenze ukuba aphile kumgangatho ongcono kunye nobunewunewu.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ukuba lihlutha isatifikethi sesikolo esiphakathi kumntu ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uhlala ebiza ukuba nguye ojongene nayo nayiphi na into abantu abamngqongileyo abayifezayo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona utitshala wakhe wobuntwaneni emnika isatifikethi sesikolo esiphakathi ephupheni ubonisa ukuba wakwazi ukuphumelela emsebenzini wakhe nangona engaphumeleli kwimfundo yakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona isatifikethi sakhe sesikolo esiphakathi sijinga eludongeni lwendlu yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba yena nabantwana bakhe banomnqweno omkhulu obenza bafezekise impumelelo emininzi ebomini babo.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ezibona efumana isatifikethi sesikolo esiphakathi nangona wayeka isikolo esemncinci ephupheni ufuzisela ukuba umntu osondeleyo kuye uya kufumana impumelelo emangazayo kwimfundo nakwimiba yokusebenza yobomi bakhe, kwaye oku kuya kumenza azidle ngaye.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ukuba uphumelele iimviwo zakhe kwaye ufumana isatifikethi sesikolo esiphakathi ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubuyela ekuzaliseni iphupha lakhe emva kokuyeka ixesha elithile.
Ukuvavanya ephupheni ziindaba ezilungileyo kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Ukubona ibhinqa eliqhawule umtshato livavanywa ephupheni lifuzisela imbuyekezo enhle eya kuyifumana kungekudala kwaye iya kumenza alibale ubukrakra bento ayenzileyo.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umyeni wakhe owayengumyeni wamvavanya ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kukho ithuba lokuba babuyelane.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona ukuba umyeni wakhe wangaphambili uyamvavanya ngovavanyo olunzima ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba utyhubela amaxesha amaninzi anzima ngenxa yomyeni wakhe wangaphambili, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba abe buhlungu njengoko ekwazi ukumoyisa kwaye ahlale ngokukhuselekileyo kunye nentuthuzelo.
- Xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ezibona ezivavanya kwindlu yomyeni wakhe wangaphambili ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uziva ezisola kwaye ebuhlungu ngenxa yokuqhawula umtshato kwaye unqwenela ukubuyela kuye kwakhona.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato enovavanyo olulula kwaye aluphumelele ephupheni kubonisa isibindi namandla anawo kwaye uyamnceda ukuba anqobe bonke ubunzima kwaye afikelele kukhuseleko.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona indoda ebukekayo imvavanya kwaye iphumelele uvavanyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kutshata nendoda eyoyikayo uThixo kuye kwaye ifuna ukuzalisekisa yonke iminqweno yakhe.
- Ibhinqa eliqhawule umtshato lithatha uviwo kwaye lingaphumeleli ephupheni libonisa ukuba ubandakanyeka kwiingxaki ezininzi kunye neengxaki, ezichaphazela iimeko zakhe kwaye zimenze aphazamiseke.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona abantwana bakhe bethatha iimviwo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ubalungiselela ukuba bazimele kwaye benze izigqibo zabo ngaphandle kokuthembela nabani na.
Ukuvavanya ephupheni ziindaba ezilungileyo kumntu
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba kuvavanyo olunzima ephupheni, olu luphawu lwemiqobo kunye nezikhubekiso ahamba nazo kwaye zimbeka kwimeko embi.
- Xa indoda ibona ukuba iphantsi kovavanyo olulula ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba iya kukwazi, ngobulumko namava ayo abanzi, ukoyisa yonke into eyayimkhathaza kwixesha elidluleyo.
- Ukuba indoda ibona ukuba ikuvavanyo olunzima kodwa ingaluphumeleli ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kuma nayo de ikwazi ukuphuma kunxunguphalo nentlungu ize ibuyele ebomini bayo ngokuqhelekileyo.
