Inkqayi ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona iqabane lakhe ephupheni libona inkqayi, oku kubonisa ukuba akamhoyanga yena nabantwana bakhe, kwaye kufuneka ayitshintshe loo nto ukuze angazisoli.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ophuphayo ethintela iqabane lakhe ukuba lingamjongi emva kokuba iinwele zakhe ziwile kubonisa ukuba iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ziyamlawula, zimenza azive engonwabanga.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona iinwele zentombi yakhe ziwela ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ukhathazeke kakhulu ngaye kwaye uyesaba ukuba uya kwenzakala.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona ephupheni ephupheni kwaye ekhala ufuzisela ukuba uya kuwela kwingxaki enkulu angayi kukwazi ukuphuma kuyo, kwaye oku kuya kumenza azive edangele.
- Ukuphupha ukucheba zonke iinwele zomntu emva kwenkqayi kumfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuguquguquka okukhulu aya kukubona ebomini bakhe kwaye kuya kwenza iimeko zakhe zibe mbi ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona umlingane wakhe emshiya emva kokuba ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uyazi omnye umntu kwaye uya kukwazi ngako, kwaye oku kuya kuchaphazela ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona inxalenye yeenwele zakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulahlekelwa yimali kwishishini lakhe, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uya kuyifumana.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ophupha umama weqabane lakhe ehamba nempandla kubonisa iindaba ezibuhlungu aza kuzifumana kungekudala malunga nomama womyeni wakhe, eziya kumenza azive ecinezelekile.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nomfazi olahlekelwa yinxalenye yeenwele zakhe kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Xa umfazi owahlukileyo ebona owayesakuba ngumyeni emthanda nangona enempandla ephupheni, olu luphawu lokukwazi kwakhe ukusombulula zonke iingxabano phakathi kwabo kwaye athathe onke amalungelo akhe.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona ukuba unempandla ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba uya kubandakanyeka kwingxaki enkulu kwiintsuku ezizayo, kodwa uya kukwazi ukunqoba ngokukhuselekileyo.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona iinwele zakhe ziwela ngokukhawuleza ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba umntu osondeleyo uya kwenzakala kakhulu, kwaye oku kuya kumchaphazela kakhulu.
- Ukubona iinwele zomfazi oqhawule umtshato ziwa ezinqeni zakhe ephupheni kubonisa izono ezininzi kunye nezikreqo azenzayo, kwaye kufuneka aguquke kuThixo.
- Umfazi oqhawule umtshato ephupha exhalabile ngempandla kubonisa ukuba akathwali xanduva ngezenzo zakhe kwaye kufuneka abe nengqiqo kwaye azame ukujongana neengxaki zakhe ngokuqaphela.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona udadewabo ephupheni ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uhlala ecinga ngodadewabo kwaye esaba ukuba uya kwenzakala ngenxa yothando lwakhe olukhulu kunye nokunamathela kuye.
- Iphupha lomfazi oqhawule umtshato lokucheba intloko yakhe libonisa izifo kunye nezifo eziza kumphatha ngokukhawuleza kwaye zithintele ukuba aphile ubomi bakhe ngokuqhelekileyo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nenkqayi yenxalenye yomfazi ongatshatanga
- Iphupha lentombazana yempandla phambi kwentloko yakhe libonisa ukuba akanalo ukunakekelwa kunye nenkxaso evela kwabo bakufutshane naye, okwenza ukuba azive ediniwe kwaye ephazamisekile.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona iinwele zakhe ziwela phambi kwentloko yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kujongana nezinto ezininzi ezimbi kwixesha elizayo kwaye kufuneka azilungiselele.
- Xa intombazana ibona impandla ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ezinye iintlungu ziya kulawula ubomi bakhe ixesha elithile, kodwa uya kukwazi ukuzoyisa ngexesha elifutshane.
- Ukuphupha ngempandla phakathi kwentloko yentombazana engatshatanga kubonisa ukuba akazithandi kwaye uhlala ethandabuza izakhono zakhe, kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze akwazi ukujongana nale nto ahamba kuyo.
- Ukubona iinwele ziphuma phakathi kwaye emva koko ziphathwa kwiphupha lentombazana kubonisa uvuyo kunye neziganeko ezonwabileyo eziza kuba yinkqubo yakhe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ziya kuphakamisa ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona umhlobo wayo osenyongweni ekhula iinwele ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuphakama kunye nempumelelo eqaqambileyo eya kuyifumana kwimfundo yakhe kunye nobomi bobugcisa, kwaye oko kuya kumenza azive enelunda.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ephupheni ukuba iinwele zakhe ziyawa kwaye zibe zincinci, oku kubonisa ukuba kufuneka ahlolisise izenzo zakhe kwaye alahle iimpawu ezingcolileyo anazo ukuze abantu bangayi kugxothwa nguye.
- Iphupha lentombazana yokuba intloko yakhe igcwele izikhewu ibonisa ukuba uya kujongana neengxaki zemali kwixesha elizayo, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ukuba abhekane neengxaki ezithile kunye nentsapho yakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokubona umntwana oyimpandla ephupheni kumfazi ongatshatanga
- Ukuba intombazana ibona umntwana oyimpandla ephupheni, oku kubonisa utshintsho kwiimeko zakhe zengqondo kunye nokuphila ngcono.
- Iphupha lentombazana yentsana enempandla libonisa ukuba unekamva eliqaqambileyo phambi kwakhe apho uya kufumana impumelelo eninzi, kwaye oku kuya kumenza aziqhenye kakhulu.
- Ukubona intombazana izala umntwana ephupheni ifuzisela izipho, impumelelo kunye nenhlanhla eya kuhamba naye kubo bonke ubomi bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi uzibona ephupheni ethwele umntwana oyimpandla, oku kubonisa ukukwazi kwakhe ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye namaphupha akhe emva kokuzama iminyaka emininzi.
- Intombazana ephuza umntwana onempandla ephupheni ithetha ukuba uThixo uyityhilele inyaniso nenkohlakalo yabo bayingqongileyo ukuze iphephe ingozi yabo ize ingabikho kubo.
- Ukufa komntwana wempandla ephupheni lentombazana kubonisa imiqobo kunye neengxaki ezininzi eziza kubandakanyeka kwixesha elizayo kwaye kubangele ukuba ubudlelwane bakhe kunye nabo bajikelezileyo bube bubi kwaye bangene kwimeko yokudakumba.
- Iphupha lentombazana malunga nokuwa kweenwele zomntwana kubonisa iindaba ezimbi eziza kufumana kungekudala kwaye ziya kumenza ahlupheke ngokwengqondo ixesha elide.
