Ilifu elimnyama ephupheni
- Xa intombazana ibona ifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lweengxaki kunye neentlungu eziza kuba nazo kwixesha elizayo kwaye oko kuya kumenza alahlekelwe ukuthanda kwakhe ukwenza nantoni na ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ubudlelwane obubi kunye neqabane lakhe ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwentsapho yakhe ebomini babo.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba ucinga kakhulu malunga nokubeletha kwakhe kwaye kufuneka athembele kuThixo kwaye angoyiki.
- Ukubona ifu elimnyama ephupheni lomntu kufanekisela imingeni kunye neentlekele ahlangabezana nazo emva kokulahlekelwa yimali eninzi kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Nabani na obona ilifu elimnyama eligubungele isibhakabhaka sonke ephupheni, olu luphawu lwezinto ezingonwabanga atyhubela kuzo ezenza ukuba aphazamiseke kwaye angakwazi ukugxila ebomini bakhe.
- Nabani na obona ilifu elimnyama lidlula kancinane phezu kwakhe ephupheni, oku kuguqulelwa njengokuthetha ukuba kufuneka enze isigqibo ngombandela omkhulu ukuze impembelelo yawo ingaqhubeki kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukubukela ifu elimnyama linyamalala ngokukhawuleza ephupheni libonisa ukukhululeka kunye nokukhululeka ebomini bakhe emva kwexesha elide losizi.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokubona ifu elimnyama lemvula ephupheni
- Nabani na obona ilifu elimnyama linetha kakhulu ephupheni, olu luphawu lwentsikelelo kunye nenhlanhla eya kuhamba naye kwiminyaka yonke ezayo.
- Nabani na obona ilifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana okuninzi kumthombo ongalindelekanga, yaye oku kuya kumvuyisa kakhulu.
- Ukubona imvula elula ehamba nelifu elimnyama ephupheni ibonisa utshintsho oluhle oluya kwenzeka kwiimeko zakhe kwaye lumenze azive anelisekile kwaye onwabile.
- Xa umntu ebona ilifu elimnyama linezaqhwithi kunye nemimoya ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba wenza izenzo ezininzi zokungakhathali, ezibangela ukuba awele kwimiqobo emininzi kunye nezikhubekiso.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga namafu amnyama amnyama kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona amafu amnyama amnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa imeko embi yengqondo ayivayo ngenxa yokungabikho kokuhambelana phakathi kwakhe neqabane lakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona amafu amnyama ehamba ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba unokujongana nemiqobo ethintela ukuphumeza ezinye zezinto aziphuphayo, kwaye akufanele aphelelwe ithemba kwaye azame kwakhona.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ukuba uziva esoyika ngenxa yokuba ebona ilifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuthatha inyathelo kumsebenzi wakhe angayi kukwazi ukuziqhelanisa nawo ngokulula.
- Ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona ifu elimnyama kwaye liziva livuya ephupheni libonisa ubukrelekrele kunye nesibindi anaso, okwenza ukuba abe nentembelo kumanyathelo akhe.
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona amafu amnyama ephupheni abonisa ukukhululeka kunye nobomi obunokuthula ahlala kunye nosapho kunye nomyeni wakhe.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona amafu amnyama amnyama kwaye lizama ukunciphisa ingxinano yabo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba usebenza nzima ukuze anqobe usizi kunye noxinzelelo olujongene nalo kunye nemizamo yakhe yokungenzi ukuba abo basondeleyo bazive nantoni na.
- Ukuba ibhinqa elitshatileyo libona umbala wamafu amnyama aguquka abe mhlophe ephupheni, oku kubonisa iintsikelelo kunye nokulunga okuza kuba yinto yakhe ngokukhawuleza kwaye kuya kumenza alibale umonakalo oye wafumana.
- Amafu amnyama ewa ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo abonisa ukuba uza kudibana nengxaki enkulu yemali ngenxa yokuphelelwa ngumsebenzi ngenxa yokuba ibingamlungelanga kwasekuqaleni.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga namafu amnyama amnyama kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Xa ibhinqa elikhulelweyo libona amafu ashinyeneyo ephupheni, oku kuluphawu lwentlungu kunye nobunzima ahamba nabo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ukuba uziva ephazamisekile kwaye esaba ngenxa yokuba ebona amafu amnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyamchaphazela kwaye uhlala ediniwe.
- Ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo ejikelezwe ngamafu amnyama ephupheni kubonisa ukuba ukhethe ukuzinyamekela yena nomntwana wakhe kwaye ashiye umsebenzi wakhe.
- Ukubona umfazi okhulelweyo ephupheni ngamafu amnyama kubonisa ukuba uzama ukugcina usana lwakhe lukhuselekile kwaye alubonakalisi kuyo nayiphi na ingozi enokwenzeka.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ifu elilodwa elimnyama ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lwesifo esincinci esiza kumchaphazela, kodwa uya kukwazi ukunqoba ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona umntwana ephethe ifu elimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuphakama kunye nekamva eliqaqambileyo elilindele umntwana wakhe.
- Umfazi okhulelweyo ebona umntwana ebambe ifu elimnyama ephupheni kubonisa ukuba umntwana wakhe uya kuba nembopheleleko kuye xa ekhula kwaye uya kuba nokuziphatha okuhle.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga namafu amnyama phezu kwendlu yomfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona amafu amnyama phezu kwendlu yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba abo bajikelezayo banciphisa ubomi bakhe kunye nothando lomyeni wakhe kuye, kwaye kufuneka abambelele kwizikhumbuzo zikaThixo ukuze uThixo amkhusele.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona amafu amnyama phezu kwendlu ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kubandakanyeka kwingxaki enkulu engayi kukwazi ukuyinqoba ngokulula.
- Ukubona ilifu elimnyama ligubungele umzi wakowabo ephupheni kufanekisela ukuba bajamelene nexesha elinzima kodwa abazange bamxelele kuba besoyikela ukuba uzakuba lusizi, kwaye kufuneka abajonge iimeko zabo kwaye abaxhase ukuze badlule ngoxolo.
- Amafu amnyama ajikeleze indlu yowesifazane okhulelweyo evela kuzo zonke iindlela ephupheni abonisa iingxabano ezininzi ezijongene nazo kunye namalungu entsapho yakhe ezithintela ukuba ahlale ngokuthuthuzela noxolo.
