Iinwele ezirhabaxa ephupheni
- Xa umntu ebona inwele ezirhabaxa ephupheni, olu luphawu lweengxaki neentsizi atyhubela kuzo ezithintela ukuba angabunandiphe ubomi bakhe.
- Ukuba umntu ubona iinwele ezirhabaxa ephupheni, oku kubonisa isidingo sakhe sokusondela kuThixo aze aphephe izenzo ezimbi azenzayo.
- Ukuba umntu ephupheni ubona iinwele ezinde, ezirhabaxa nezimbi, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kutyhubela ixesha elinzima lemali eliya kubangela ukuba aqokelele amatyala amaninzi.
- Umntu ophupha ngeenwele ezirhabaxa, ezimdaka ubonisa iindaba ezimbi eziya kuthi kungekudala azive ngomntu amthandayo, okuya kumenza buhlungu.
- Nabani na obona iinwele ezinde, ezirhabaxa ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukungavisisani phakathi kwakhe nabo bakufutshane naye, nto leyo eya kubangela ukuba abe yedwa kangangexesha elithile.
- Ukuba umntu ubona iinwele ezinde, ezinqabileyo, ezidayiweyo ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba ubonakala evuya kwaye evuya, kodwa uyaxoka kwaye ufihla usizi oluninzi ngaphakathi.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neenwele ezinde ezimnyama kubafazi abangatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona iinwele ezinde ezimnyama ephupheni, oku kufanekisela uthando kunye nokwamkelwa okufumana ezintliziyweni zabo bajikelezile.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ephupheni iinwele ezinde ezimnyama, oku kubonisa ukuba sele eza kudibana nomfana olilungisa nongcwele aze atshate naye.
- Ukubona intombazana eneenwele ezimnyama ezinde ephupheni ifanekisela ukuhlonela kwakhe kunye nokuhlanzeka kwentliziyo yakhe kwinzondo nomona.
- Iphupha lentombazana yeenwele ezinde ezimnyama libonisa umdla wakhe wokubonelela ngenkxaso kunye noncedo kwabo basondeleyo ngaphandle kokulindela nantoni na.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona iinwele ezinde, ezimnyama ezicwangcisiweyo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba unomdla wokucwangcisa ubomi bakhe kakuhle kwaye kwangaphambili ukuze aqhubeke namanyathelo ahleliweyo, kude neengxabano.
- Intombazana ephupha ngeenwele ezinde ezimnyama kunye nokuzingca ngayo ibonisa ukuba kukho umntu oneemvakalelo ezintle kuye kwaye ufuna ukusondela kuye.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona ukuba unina uneenwele ezimnyama ezinde ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zikanina.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusika iinwele ezinde kumfazi otshatileyo
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona echeba zonke iinwele zakhe ezinde ephupheni ufuzisela ukuchacha kwakhe kuyo yonke imiba eyayimthintele ukuba akhulelwe kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephupheni ephupheni ephupheni iinwele zakhe ezinde, ezigobileyo, ezirhabaxa, oku kubonisa ukuba umzimba wakhe uya kukhululeka kwizigulo nezifo kwaye uya kuhlala ethuthuzelekile nasekuchumeni.
- Umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ngokwakhe ukucheba iinwele zakhe ezinde kwaye zikhangeleka kakuhle zibonisa ukuba uya kuzifezekisa iinjongo kunye namaphupha akhe ebezama ixesha elide.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona ephupheni ukucheba iinwele zakhe ngokungaqhelekanga, oku kubonisa ukungakhathali kunye nokungabi naxanduva, okubangela ukuba enze izinto ezininzi ezingalunganga.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ozibona echeba iinwele zakhe ngendlela embi ephupheni ubonisa iingxaki ezininzi kunye nemiqobo eya kujongana nayo kwixesha elizayo, elimthintela ekufezekiseni nantoni na ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzibona enqumle iinwele zakhe ngendlela ekhangayo ephupheni, oku kubonisa utshintsho olonwabileyo oluya kuba yinto yakhe ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba akanelisekanga ngokucheba iinwele zakhe, oku kubonisa ukunganeliseki kunye nokunganeliseki okumbonakalisayo kwaye kumenza ajonge oko abanye abanako.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nokusika iinwele kumntu owaziwayo
- Xa umntu ebona umntu odumileyo echeba iinwele zakhe aze amncede ephupheni, oku kububungqina bokuba uya kumnceda akwazi ukucombulula iingxaki ajamelene nazo.
- Ukuba umntu ubona umntu amaziyo ephupheni echeba iinwele zakhe ngenkani, oku kubonisa izono nezenzo ezingavumelekanga azenzayo, yaye umele aguquke ngenxa yazo ukuze angabi nakufumana isohlwayo esibuhlungu.
- Ukuba umntu ubona umfazi wakhe echeba iinwele zakhe kwaye uyonwabile ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba unomdla wokwabelana naye yonke imisebenzi kunye noxanduva oluwela emahlombe akhe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha ukuba umyeni wakhe ucheba iinwele zakhe ngokuchasene nentando yakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuthatha imali eninzi kumfazi wakhe ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe.
- Ukuba umntu uphupha ngokwakhe ukucheba iinwele zakhe kunye nomhlobo othandekayo, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwintsebenziswano enkulu yoshishino eya kumzisela inzuzo enkulu.
- Ukuba umntu ephupheni ubona umntu odumileyo echeba iinwele zakhe, oko kubonisa ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuzaliswa kukulunga okuninzi kunye neentsikelelo kulo mntu.
Iinwele ezintle ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Umfazi otshatileyo obona iinwele zakhe ezintle kwaye zithambile ephupheni ufuzisela ukukhululeka kunye nenhlanhla eya kuba yeyakhe kungekudala.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba ephupheni uneenwele ezinde, ezimnyama kakhulu, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kungena kwishishini elikhulu eliya kumzisela imali eninzi.
- Iphupha lomfazi otshatileyo lomyeni wakhe edibanisa iinwele zakhe kwaye wayevuya libonisa ubudlelwane kunye nobudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwakhe, iqabane lakhe kunye nosapho lwakhe, nto leyo eyenza ubudlelwane babo buzinze kwaye bonwabe.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba umyeni wakhe uneenwele ezintle, ezithambileyo ephupheni, oku kufanekisela ukuba ixesha elizayo liya kuba nempumelelo eninzi kunye nempumelelo, kwaye oku kuya kumzisela imali eninzi.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba omnye wezihlobo zakhe uneenwele ezintle ezimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuhlanganisana kunye nentsapho yakhe ngezihlandlo ezimnandi.
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona umyeni wakhe emnceda ukuba ahlambe iinwele zakhe ezinde, ezintle ephupheni zibonisa ukuba uzimisele ukuqala ixesha elitsha apho uya kuba nezihlandlo ezininzi ezonwabileyo nezikhethekileyo kunye nomntu amthandayo.
