Iindudumo kunye nemibane ephupheni
- Ukubona umbane ephupheni luphawu lokuba uhamba ngexesha elibi ngenxa yeengxaki ezininzi ahlangabezana nazo.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba uva isandi sendudumo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kuva iindaba ezininzi ezimbi eziya kumbangela adandatheke.
- Ukubona imibane ekhatshwa sisandi esikhulu sendudumo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uThixo uya kumtyhilela oko kumngqongileyo yaye oku kuya kumenza akwazi ukuhlangabezana nezinto ezimbi atyhubela kuzo.
- Xa umntu ebona iindudumo zikhatshwa sisandi esikhulu sendudumo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukukhula neentsikelelo emalini nasebantwaneni.
- Ukuba umntu ubona iindudumo ezihamba nezaqhwithi ezinamandla ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kusuka kwiindlela ezigwenxa aze aqalise ixesha elingcono ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umntu ubona umbane ukhatshwa ngumbane onamandla ephupheni, oku kubonisa izihlandlo ezivuyisayo aya kuya kuzo nentsapho yakhe.
Ukubona umbane ngesivunguvungu ephupheni
- Ukubona umbane ngesivunguvungu ephupheni kufanekisela inkohlakalo kunye nempatho embi oyifumana kumntu obalulekileyo kwilizwe.
- Ukuba umntu ubona ukuba wenzakaliswa ngexesha loqhwithela ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uhamba kwixesha elibi elimenza akhathazeke kwaye abe lusizi.
- Nabani na obona ukuba wenzakaliswa ngexesha loqhwithela ephupheni, oku kubonisa utshintsho olubi oluya kwenzeka kwiinkalo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe kwaye lubangele ukudana.
- Ukubukela izaqhwithi kunye neendudumo ephupheni kubonisa ukuba abantu ababi baya kunyanzelwa ukuba benze izinto ezimbi kwiintsuku ezizayo.
- Nabani na ozibona ehamba kwisiphango ephupheni, olu luphawu lokuthuthuzela emva kokudinwa kunye nokwaneliseka emva kokunganeliseki.
- Ukwesaba isivunguvungu ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uzama ukuzola abo basondeleyo kuye kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze ingqondo yakhe ingachaphazeleki.
Ukwesaba iindudumo ephupheni kumfazi otshatileyo
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona ukuba ukwesaba ukuduma ephupheni, oku kubonisa ulonwabo kunye novuyo oluya kuzalisa intliziyo yakhe emva kokuva iindaba malunga nomntu amthandayo.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uyabona ukuba uyoyika ukududuma ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba uThixo uya kumjizeka iintsikelelo ezininzi nezinto ezilungileyo, yaye oko kuya kumenza aneliseke aze onwabe.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona ukuba uyesaba xa eva isandi sombane ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukwaneliseka kunye novuyo oluya kuba yisabelo sakhe kungekudala.
- Ukubona umbane kunye nokuziva onwabile ephupheni lomfazi otshatileyo kubonisa ukuguquka kwakhe kwizenzo zakhe ezimbi kunye nokuguqula izenzo zakhe kwizinto ezikholisa uThixo kunye noMthunywa wakhe.
- Ukuba umntu ubona iindudumo ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukungaboni ngasonye phakathi kwakhe nentsapho yakhe, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ukuba babe kude kangangexesha elithile.
Ukwesaba iindudumo ephupheni kumfazi okhulelweyo
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ukuba uyesaba xa ebona umbane ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ukwesaba kunye nokuxhalaba kuyamlawula ngenxa yento anokujamelana nayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe, kwaye akufanele avumele ukuba ezi ngcamango zichaphazele.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona umbane onamandla ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kusikelelwa ngomntwana olilungisa nongcwele.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona umbane kunye neendudumo kunye ephupheni, oku kuthetha ukuba uzama ukukhusela umntwana wakhe kuyo nayiphi na ingozi enokumehlela.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubona ukuphela kweendudumo kunye nombane ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulahla ixesha elibi elichaphazela indlela yakhe yokuphila.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nombane ngaphandle kwesandi kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona umbane ephupheni, oko kuthetha ukuba ubandezeleka ngenxa yamava amabi adlule kuwo, kwaye kufuneka anqobe.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umbane ngaphandle kwesandi ephupheni, olu luphawu lokukwazi ukunqoba bonke ubunzima kwaye aqale isigaba esikhululekile kunye nesonwabileyo ebomini bakhe.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umbane kunye neendudumo ephupheni, olu luphawu lwexesha elibi ahamba nalo kwaye oko kumenza abe kwimeko embi.
- Umbane ehlotyeni ephupheni ubonisa imiqobo kunye nobunzima obukhathaza umphuphi kwaye udinwe.
- Umbane onemvula ephupheni uvakalisa izinto ezintle oza kuzifumana kwaye eziya kukwenza uzive wanelisekile kwaye wonwabile.
- Ukubona umbane ephupheni, uloyiko nokusaba ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uThixo wamsindisa umyeni wakhe kwintlekele enkulu eyayiza kuchaphazela ubomi babo.
- Ukubona umbane ephupheni kunye nokubetha umyeni wangaphambili ephupheni kubonisa ukuba uyazi omnye umfazi kwaye ungene kubudlelwane naye.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona umbane ephupheni kwaye ubetha umyeni wakhe wangaphambili ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uceba ukumbangela iingxaki ezininzi kwaye kufuneka aqaphele.
