Iigusha ephupheni kubafazi abangatshatanga
- Xa intombazana ibona izimvu ephupheni, oku bubungqina beentsikelelo ezininzi kunye nezinto ezintle eziza kuba yinto yakhe ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukubona intombazana ilahlekelwa yigusha ephupheni ifanekisela ukuziva kwayo ithintelwe kwaye idiniwe ngenxa yokungakwazi ukufezekisa amaphupha akhe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona izimvu ezimhlophe zilahlekile ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo entliziyweni yakhe, eya kumenza azive ekhungathekile kwaye engenathemba.
- Ukubona imvu emhlophe kwiphupha lentombazana kubonisa ukulunga kwakhe kunye nokuhlanzeka kwentliziyo, okwenza wonke umntu amxabise kwaye amhloniphe.
- Ukuba intombazana ibona iigusha zibiwe kuye ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba woyika ukuba akayi kukwazi ukudlula kwinqanaba lakhe lezemfundo njengabanye oontanga bakhe, kwaye kufuneka asebenze nzima kwaye athembele kuThixo kwaye angoyiki.
- Ukubukela intombazana ebalekela izimvu ephupheni ibonisa ukuba uziva enesizungu kwaye unqwenela ukuba nabahlobo ababelana ngento ayithandayo.
- Intombazana esukela izimvu ephupheni ibonisa amandla kunye nesibindi anaso, esimnceda ukuba anqobe yonke imiqobo kwaye afikelele kwizinto ezinqwenelayo.

Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neegusha ezimnyama
- Ukubona iigusha ezimnyama ephupheni kufanekisela ubomi obuzolileyo nobonwabileyo obuhlala umphuphi, kude nakuphi na ukuxhalaba.
- Ukuba umntu ubona izimvu ezimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana isikhundla esiphezulu emsebenzini wakhe ngenxa yokugqwesa kwakhe kunye nokuzinikela emsebenzini.
- Nabani na obona izimvu ezimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ekugqibeleni uye wathatha inyathelo eliya kumaphupha akhe emva kweminyaka yobuvila, kwaye uya kuvuna ngokukhawuleza iziqhamo zomsebenzi wakhe.
- Xa umfazi otshatileyo ebona izimvu ezimnyama ephupheni, oku kubonisa intsikelelo kunye nempumelelo eya kuhamba naye kulo lonke ixesha elizayo kwaye enze ikhaya lakhe lizole kwaye lijabule.
- Ukubona igusha emnyama ekhulelweyo ephupheni ibonisa ixesha elibuhlungu ahamba nalo kunye neqabane lakhe elilahlayo, elimenza azive engenathemba kwaye ecinezelekile.
- Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo ubona izimvu ezimnyama ephupheni, oku bubungqina boxolo kunye nemali eninzi eya kuba yakhe kungekudala.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga nezimvu ezimhlophe ephupheni kumntu
- Ukubona izimvu ezimhlophe ephupheni lomntu kufanekisela ukuphuma kwakhe kwisangqa soxinzelelo kunye nobunzima, okwenza imeko yakhe yengqondo ibe ngcono.
- Ukuba umntu ubona izimvu ezimhlophe zijika zibe mnyama ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuhanahanisa kunye nenzondo egcwalisa iintliziyo zabo bajikelezayo, kwaye kufuneka aqaphele.
- Xa indoda izibona isela ubisi lwegusha ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana ithuba elingcono eliya kumvuyisa kakhulu.
- Ukubona indoda ephupheni isela ubisi lwegusha ibonisa umzamo omkhulu awenzayo ukufezekisa oko akufunayo.
- Xa indoda ibona umfazi wayo empha inyama yetakane ephupheni, obo bubungqina bokuba uyayixhasa ukuze ikwazi ukuphumeza usukelo namaphupha ayo ekudala iwalwela.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona emi phakathi kwamafu amaninzi amnyama ephupheni, oku bubungqina bokuba abo bajikelezayo baceba ukumenzakalisa, kwaye kufuneka alumke.
- Nabani na obona umphathi wakhe emnika izimvu ezimhlophe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba uya kufumana umvuzo emsebenzini ngenxa yokunyaniseka nokugqwesa kwakhe.
Ukutolikwa kokubona izimvu zidla ephupheni kumntu
- Ukuba indoda ibona igusha eyalusayo ibaleka ephupheni, olu luphawu lokuba iza kujongana neengxaki ezininzi nosapho lwayo ngenxa yengxaki yemali.
- Xa umntu ebona iigusha zimbhuqa ephupheni, oku kububungqina bokhuphiswano olunamandla ajongene nalo kwimarike yomsebenzi, kwaye kufuneka alumke ukuze afezekise oko akufunayo.
- Ukuba indoda ibona umfazi wayo esalusa amatakane ephupheni, oku kububungqina bokuba uThixo uya kuyipha izinto ezininzi ezintle neentsikelelo ebisoloko izithandazela kuThixo.
- Ukubona indoda ebambe imvu eyomeleleyo ephupheni bubungqina bokuba iya kujamelana nemiqobo ethile, kodwa iya kukwazi ukuyoyisa ngokulula.
- Ukubona umntu ephupheni esidla ukutya kwakhe kubonisa umntu ongena endlwini yakhe aze asondele kuye, kodwa umnqwenelela okubi nokubi.
- Ukuba umntu ubona umntu emnika imvu emnyama ukuba athambekele ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba ingxabano iya kuvela phakathi kwakhe nomhlobo wakhe emsebenzini, okuya kubangela ukucaphuka okuqhubekayo phakathi kwabo.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha malunga neegusha ezimhlophe kumfazi oqhawule umtshato
- Xa umfazi oqhawule umtshato ebona ukuba ubulala ezininzi iigusha ezimhlophe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba usabandezeleka nomyeni wakhe wangaphambili kwaye akazi ukuba angabhekana njani nabo.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato uzibona ehamba emva kwezimvu ezimhlophe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuhlonela kwakhe kunye nobunyulu.
- Ukubona umfazi oqhawule umtshato edla amehlo ezimvu ezimhlophe ephupheni kubonisa ukuba wenza izenzo ezininzi ezimbi kwaye uthetha ngabanye, kwaye kufuneka ayeke ukwenza oko.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato uzibona eseza izimvu ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu lophuhliso lweshishini lakhe kunye nokuthandwa kwalo phakathi kwabantu, okuya kumzisela inzuzo eninzi.
- Umfazi obona igusha emhlophe ikhala phakathi kwendlela ephupheni ufuzisela izenzo zakhe ezimbi kwaye kufuneka alungise indlela yakhe ukuze angazibandakanyi kwiingxaki ezininzi.
- Ukuba umfazi oqhawule umtshato ubona izimvu ezimhlophe ephupheni, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uya kufumana imali eninzi kwaye aphucule isimo sakhe kuluntu lwakhe.
Ukubona ukuxhelwa kweegusha ephupheni
- Umfazi otshatileyo ebona iqabane lakhe lixhela imvu ephupheni lifuzisela uthando nenceba ebadibanisayo kwaye yenza ubudlelwane babo buzole kwaye bonwabe.
- Ukuba umntu uzibona exhela itakane ephupheni, oku kubonisa imvume ayenzayo ukuze alondoloze ubuhlobo bakhe nalowo amthandayo.
- Nabani na obona ukuba uxhela iigusha ezininzi endlwini yakhe ephupheni, oku kubonisa imiqobo emi endleleni yakhe kwaye imthintele ekufezekiseni amaphupha akhe.
- Ukuzibona uxhelela igusha ephupheni kubonakalisa ingcinezelo nonxunguphalo ubani analo ngenxa yokoyika oko anokujamelana nako kwixesha elizayo, kwaye kufuneka ayiyeke loo nto azabalazele kwaye athembele kuThixo.